Years ago, one day my brother said something.

"People make time if they want a relationship."

It turns out he was secretly going on a date that weekend with a chick that he was previously trying to hook me up with, but was wondering if I had any luck setting something up with her - and I told him she kept saying she was busy. That's when he said it. While knowing full well he had a date setup and I was strung along by the same chick.

Just a good reminder for those stuck on oneitis mode.