I would consider myself a relative newcomer.

I am not your typical redpiller, maybe? I have a wife, a kid. I have only been here for about a month or maybe a bit more. Check my history. I came here because I was confused. Sad. Scared. Confused.

I won't go into trying to explain the TRP way or defend its principals, but I will say two things:

  1. I am happier in my relationship with my wife than I've ever been (think like 6-year marriage, early thirties)

  2. My wife is happier in her relationship with me than I've ever seen.

  3. The community of support here (and in particular asktrp) is truly helpful and comforting. They have changed the way I operate but moreso they have been ultimately patient, kind, and giving in their empathy, humour, sympathy, and advice.

If any new newcomers have any questions for me regarding the state of affairs of my marriage, if I abuse my wife (spoiler: I don't), or anything like that, feel free to message me.

And thanks, TRP.