Mister Softee - Rational Male | "The main reason for this is rooted in women’s innate solipsism. If the reality doesn’t fit with her interpretation, rationalize the reality to force fit it to that interpretation."

RedHonest · 2013-01-17T17:29:48+00:00

Love it. Lots of comments:

The first "Iron Rule of Tomassi" is about Frame: "Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who’s frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are." This article is linked here, and even though frame isn't consciously mentioned all that often on Rollo's blog, it's really fucking important.
The best window into a woman's Id is to what she thinks about you when she's attracted to you. For instance, women who were into me made assumptions like that I had a lot of sexual partners.
Alpha doesn't mean being a douche. I'm not trying to get all seddit-lite here, but I think when betas try to get douchey, the result isn't attraction. Rather, Alpha's are generally considered douches, usually by beta men, when they aren't really. They just don't follow the rules of the feminine imperative that society tells us are required to be decent.

redpillschool · 2013-01-17T17:34:01+00:00

So much good stuff in here.

A lot of freshly unplugged guys have trouble accepting Game as being anything more than an act – a series of behaviors meant to elicit a response in a woman, and once she’s been attracted they can go back to their regularly scheduled personality. They rely on rote memorization instead of learning and internalizing Game. What a lot more don’t understand is that even in their blue pill Beta Game days they also followed a similar ‘acting’.

This acting is encouraged in much the same way as Ann was attempting to distort her own reality. As with most women, they fall in love with a dichotomy; they want a sweet guy, who’s tough and gets shit done. If one of these aspects is out of balance her rationalization engine (i.e. Hamster) will make subconscious attempts to compensate for it in her words and beliefs. “I want a sweet guy with a good heart” is boilerplate for the feminine imperative because it ‘sounds right’. Men hear this and ‘act’ on it in the deductive belief that it will endear him to women in general.

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