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Success Story

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March 20, 2013
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1aaroh/seduction_is_a_tool_or_how_i_learned_to_stop/c8vo41r


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Title Success Story
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 12
Comments 12
Date 20 March 2013 02:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/174874
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1anvdl/success_story/
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[–]hobodick 15 points16 points  (6 children) | Copy

It's so damn fitting you call it "the red pill"...I don't know how to begin to describe it. Reading the sidebar and all the info here has given me a completely different outlook on women, and my entire life. I know I still have a lot more growing to do, but I'm very thankful for this subreddit, all the great reading material in the sidebar, and the intelligent community who is willing to engage in conversation. If you, redpillschool, didn't call my ass out...who knows how much longer I'd be stuck as a bitter white knight. Shit, just a few days ago I was PROUDLY calling myself a white knight, willing to fight for the "greater good" til I was dead...

I kept telling myself that I must do the right thing, treat everyone with respect, compassion and empathy and that someday I'd find the right woman that would treat me right. Spending just 5 days here has helped me realize how that path lead to nowhere, and how foolish I was to walk it for so long. While doing the right thing is still important, I realize now how much damage I've done to myself, and my potential as a human being as I've been stuck in this mindset that "women date jerks, and I'm such a good guy." I think I have a much better understanding of where you guys are coming from now. It's like everything I felt was just under the surface that I was too afraid to explore, has come into light. I have some self-reflection and meditation to do...

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's as if we saw you turn that light bulb on. Welcome, we are happy to have you.

[–]Ethan47 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This has to be the coolest back and forth I've read on reddit. Welcome hobodick.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

truth of the ways men are shamed and manipulated into blindly serving women's interests at their own expense is too ugly to accept at first. stay strong and respect yourself.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I kept telling myself that I must do the right thing, treat everyone with respect, compassion and empathy and that someday I'd find the right woman that would treat me right.

Exactly.

Being treated right isn't about finding the right woman. It's about teaching women to treat you right.

You get the behaviours you incentivize. Punish women for mistreating you, and reward them when they are considerate and respectful, and they will be considerate and respectful. Reward them with your kindness when they are being selfish, and they will continue to be selfish.

[–]freewanderer 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was a surprising turnaround. I never expected him to swallow the redpill after reading his first comment.

Keep up the good work, redpillschool.

[–]itsmehobnob 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I posted that thread. I've been busy and didn't have time to check in on it. Thanks for picking up the ball I dropped RPS!

[–]TRP Vanguardlegendofpasta 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Heh, this one was a tougher sell than I was way back when. Nice work rps

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good cop at it again. You just can't stop this guy. slowclap.gif

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was incredible. Didnt see that one coming.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

See here it is. Shaming language to dissuade open discussion based on your moral compass, not everybody's.

Frankly, every single interaction you have with somebody is a form of manipulation. Your goal is in communicating with them is to convey information and change their mind or cause them to act on something.

Even this sentence is a form of manipulation.

"Douche" is an empty term that serves no purpose but to try to stifle men from trying pickup for fear that they may be labeled "douche" themselves. Nobody wants to be hated, so wielding this weapon is surprisingly effective at quashing motivation.

The force is strong with this one ~ nice argument bro ~ I now dub thee master debator ~



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