Thought natural flirt friendzoned me, but now she's invited me to stay at her house for a few days?

throwaway-atc · 2018-03-04T09:03:20+00:00

Penis => vagina.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-03-04T12:06:06+00:00

She's paying for half and telling you that you can stay at her place. She wants to get laid, all you have to do is not fuck it up.

However, from the confidence oozing from your post I have a feeling it would be a strong potential that in about two weeks we would see a "I was staying at a girls house and didn't get laid, how did I fuck it up?" post.

YasserZe · 2018-03-04T09:31:56+00:00

At the time I couldn't tell if she was just being friendly or liked me and never really pursued e

You slide into her frame. Who cares what she liked. If you liked her you should have gone for it then and there.

She sometimes texted me about her problems

The term for you here is emotional tampon.

never got into sexting so I thought I might've been friendzoned....she usually flaked.

Check and check and check.

Here's what happened. Chad stuck is dick in your girl's ass a few times and then moved on to her friend Sally and now Chad isn't answering her calls. And there have been many calls.

Now she wants to use you for your purpose all along, you get to be plan B. If you go, you might get laid. Might. But it isn't worth it.

Wakatowa · 2018-03-04T12:32:19+00:00

Dude just go. She might be a "natural flirt", but it gives a big chance for you to work on yourself. Show up expecting to fuck. It might be hard, but if you show her your not interested in the friendzone, you can possibly get your dick wet. If she's not into that, then you got LA. Coffee shops, malls, there's millions of women to practice on. But it all depends on your budget, can reliably make it back home?

AshyBoneVR4 · 2018-03-04T10:46:30+00:00

Natural flirt and hooked up with a few other guys at school.

So she's a hoe.

At the time I couldn't tell if she was just being friendly or liked me and never really pursued everything.

She liked you, or was at the very least open to the idea of you guys messing around but you talked yourself outta it.

She sometimes texted me about her problems and never got into sexting so I thought I might've been friendzoned.

Oh you were, and you let that shit happen to yourself.

We were messaging today and she told me she's liked me since sophomore year. She was also joking about us eventually marrying and all that shit.

This is a flashing neon sign pointing at her vagina. If you wanted to, you could actually date this girl.

She's nice, but the times I did ask her to hang back in school, she usually flaked.

She's a hoe. Hoes flake because they found something/someone else seemingly more interesting to occupy her time. That, or she's trying to make you chase after her so she feels special. Make a hard attempt to fuck her, and if she declines for ANY reason, stop talking to her.

Don't know if she was serious, but she said she'd pay for 1/2 of my plane ticket and I can stay at her house (pretty sure her parents will be there too though?).

Oh this girl likes you. She really really likes you if she offered to actually spend her/her parents money on you. If you don't fuck, you can at least cop a feel.

If you can swing it, tell her you'll visit but you'll get yourself a hotel room and you expect her to be the best damn hostess you've ever had in your life.

reallifemarlboroman · 2018-03-04T17:15:24+00:00

Imo when you show a girl this level of commitment to fucking her, i.e., going so far as to take a flight to see her, she notices that and is using it for her own self esteem, and probably won’t fuck you when it’s all said and done. I’ve seen this happen when a girl bought a ticket to visit my friend for a weekend. He thought she wanted to fuck but actually she just wasted his time as he entertained her and she ended up flirting with his friends.

cptgoatsack · 2018-03-04T19:28:11+00:00

Compare price of plane flight / 2 to average price of a hooker.

htbf · 2018-03-04T19:30:06+00:00

Her legs open if you are up to it.

And you would be a complete idiot not to go. She sounds fun and there is nothing bad that could happen. Worst thing that could happen is you learned something new.

Title	Thought natural flirt friendzoned me, but now she's invited me to stay at her house for a few days?
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Date	March 4, 2018 8:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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