Am i just being used for money? How can i know for sure?

millioneuroextreme · 2019-01-24T01:11:18+00:00

Dude is this your first time on TRP? She’s using you. She’s also lying to you if the card doesn’t match up. Dump ASAP.

You’re a beta provider.

lostbuthopefull · 2019-01-24T01:56:42+00:00

You’re literally supporting a felons child and not EVEN getting pussy?

BRO HOLD THISSSSS L.

Olram_Sacul · 2019-01-24T01:14:03+00:00

omg u gotta b trollin

[deleted] · 2019-01-24T01:31:14+00:00

If this a serious post and you are not a troll. I would read this message, book a one way flight to anywhere. Get off plane, book a night at a motel, read the sidebar over and over again and avoid women like the plague until you have a modicum of self respect.

yellowdopamine · 2019-01-24T01:55:14+00:00

You are a troll. This is not real.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-01-24T02:33:53+00:00

Are fucking serious? Please please please tell us you're trolling

Bruchibre · 2019-01-24T02:37:02+00:00

Do you live in a village with only one girl or are your standards that Low?

frontyer0077 · 2019-01-24T05:19:21+00:00

If this is real, its a textbook example of alpha fucks beta bucks. Exactly how Rollo explains it. "Gets pregnant with alpha, and then uses beta to provide for it".

Pill-de-Blasio · 2019-01-24T01:14:52+00:00

lol how long have you guys been together?

red_philosopher · 2019-01-24T06:31:34+00:00

Ok, so, i am in a bit of a dilemma.

It's not, but you are hamstering it into one.

she's kind of a real piece of work.

HARD NEXT

Let me explain.

No. You know better than this. You fucking white knight.

She's the same age as me, but already has a kid.

Never fucking date single moms. Ever.

She has a history of making poor life choices. Why the fuck would you ever want someone like that in your life?

She got pregnant by a pretty much career criminal. Car thief, fighting, violent, etc.

The look of disappointment on my face cannot be accurately described in text.

But, surprise surprise, he's in prison for the next 4 or 5 years. After she had the baby, i met her and we started to date.

This is your bad life choice.

My friends tell me i'm being used.

Your fucking friends who supposedly have your best interests in mind, are telling you you are fucking up, but you refuse to believe them.

I've seen letters from the prison in the mailbox, but she says she always ignores them.

Because she's trustworthy right? RIGHT? She would never make a bad decision like lying to you about such a thing right?

She always asks to borrow money

I wonder why.

or my card

Same thing.

to buy laundry detergent or something.

Or something.

But it'll always be the smallest, cheapest bottles

This is you rationalizing again.

But the amount missing off my card doesn't match up at all.

So you have an obvious discrepancy, blatant proof of her lies and you haven't done shit yet. What's the dilemma?

I mean, i met her mom and she's been insistent that i stay with her daughter.

Why does what her mom thinks have anything to do with your decision making? Quit being a bitch and man the fuck up.

She told me how nice it was her daughter is dating someone stable adn with a good job. Which i do, i have a good job, not a millionaire or anything, but i do all right.

No shit. Her daughter's real boyfriend is in fucking prison.

Enough to buy us an apartment together, at least.

Why would you EVER do that? Real reasons. Love? So you can raise a felon's kid? So she can cheat on you while you take care of her? Please.

We've only slept together once, and that was for my birthday.

So you've been together for MONTHS and have gotten laid once, and buy everything she needs when she asks.

Every night, she always seems to have an excuse. Mostly "I don't want to wake up the baby".

You're a fucking idiot.

How can i know for sure if i'm just being used?

Because your friends say you are, we say you are, she's not fucking you and is, ahem, using your fucking money. She's lying about what she's purchased, as evidenced by the discrepancies in the card purchases, she's getting prison mail on the regular, she's definitely fucking someone else while you bankroll her bad decision making, and worse? YOU THINK IT'S A FUCKING DILEMMA.

HotHead121 · 2019-01-24T07:27:15+00:00

Are you fucking retarted even her fucking mom told you that your beta bux omg guys your killing me...

Menchstick · 2019-01-24T12:58:25+00:00

You are giving money to a single mom without anything in return. From how you're handling the situation I assume you've never had the misfortune of having to deal with one of them. Get as far as possible from her ASAP. You fucking know she's doing something with your money without telling you what. She's only had sex with you on your birthday. Let that sink in.

You are worth nothing to her. She doesn't love you, neither romantically or platonically. She doesn't feel affection for you, not even empathy or compassion. You are a source of money, and it doesn't matter what you feel for her, what you do for her or what she tells you, she will never see you as anything but an obstacle to crush between her and your money. In her head there are only 2 imperatives: providing for her child and not working. As long as she gets those 2 she's ready to set the whole world ablaze and kill every last kitten on the planet.

If you want to take the risk and stay with her, be my guest. You have nothing to win and everything to lose, but worse odds have not stopped better men than you from destroying themselves.

You only have one life, you're free to give it up for some whore and her bastard, criminal-blooded offspring.

Good luck.

Themane22 · 2019-01-24T16:14:31+00:00

Troll

Title	Am i just being used for money? How can i know for sure?
Author	BackgroundJellyfish
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	January 24, 2019 1:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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