My FWB doesn't want to date and it kind of stings...

failingtheturingtest · 2017-07-07T01:21:34+00:00

First, you have oneitis. Don't do that.

There are women who will fuck you and date you. You date them when it suits you, fuck them when it suits you, and ignore them when it suits you.
There are women who will fuck you but not date you. You fuck them when it suits you, ignore them when it suits you.
There are women who will date you but not fuck you. They can fuck themselves.
There are women who will not fuck or date you. Good for them.

You cannot negotiate with any of them. You cannot explain to a sheila that she should want to be fucking or dating you. You can only be you and decide when she has access.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-07-07T01:46:04+00:00

Have you been limiting? You're sounding a little emotional right now.

oldredder · 2017-07-07T04:45:09+00:00

Ya, I think yer crazy. fwb girls don't want to date and vice versa.

but I am getting older and eventually I'd like to get married and start a family. So, I need to start developing a meaningful relationship.

good luck with that. Most women today are spoiled, ruined brats in adult-size packages. they're unfit to be mothers, most of them.

I doubt dread would work on her though because she's so emotionless...

So at best she'll raise kids to be just as bad and not even respect or care about you. Great plan

redaftrp · 2017-07-07T12:24:18+00:00

You're trying to turn a ho into a housewife, hoes don't act right. There's hoes in the kitchen and hoes on the crackpipe. Don't waste time, energy or resources on this slag, look for something better.

Docbear64 · 2017-07-07T00:38:49+00:00

If she doesn't want to settle down with you don't introduce unnecessary pressure. Go find a girl who wants to date you and you want to date and keep fucking this chick . You guys have fun together , and I can tell you first hand from personal experience just because you have fun with someone doesn't mean that you should always date them . Keep having fun look for wifey elsewhere.

Mobiiz · 2017-07-07T03:00:58+00:00

Find another girl. She'll either become jealous and want to date you or you'll be happier with this other girl and end up forgetting about her. You have a scarcity mindset right now, which isn't good. There are lots of good women out there... find one who appreciates what you bring to the table.

Willow-girl · 2017-07-07T14:07:09+00:00

Hon, she likes you well enough to sleep with you, but she's seeing red flags somewhere in the equation or simply feels she can do better over the long term. Accept it for what it is, a nice FWB, but look elsewhere for a girlfriend.

q31 · 2017-07-07T01:12:06+00:00

Date her but don't call it dating.

Go eat before you fuck because you're starving.....shit like that.

Title	My FWB doesn't want to date and it kind of stings...
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Comments	14
Date	July 7, 2017 12:33 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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