Anyone else feel bad for "using" girls for sex and entertainment without committing to a relationship?

[deleted] · 2017-06-25T15:46:46+00:00

They're adults, they'll get over it.

untrp · 2017-06-25T16:31:50+00:00

You get used to it the more you do it. You also grow to realize that you aren’t exactly using them for sex. They’re agreeing to the sex. They want it too.

max_peenor · 2017-06-25T16:32:31+00:00

They are using me for sex and entertainment, and don't seem to cut up about it. So why should I be?

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-25T17:37:56+00:00

You aren't taking advantage of them.
Stick this in your head, because we say it, sjws say it, the world says it and somehow BP indoctrinates us otherwise so that we are vulnerable to being shamed into commitment when we want sex:
WOMEN FUCK. WOMEN FUCK A LOT.

Now I'll go redpill about it.
You can approach a woman and get her to fuck you through two sides. You can present yourself as great relationship material, or you can present yourself as a fuckboy.
If you present yourself as relationship material you will get laid, but you'll be somehow tricking the girls. Experienced women will make you wait. Inexperienced women will feel you short changed them because you "felt" like committing but didn't. You'll "make love".
If you present yourself as a fuckboy you'll have the girl you're talking to either making herself a fuckgirl, she won't feel short changed, she will feel empowered by getting rammed hard, and you won't make love, you'll screw each other.

I had a bit of a hard time figuring that out. I got back into the market after a long LTR, and that LTR's most pleasant moments were with me in beta frame before she lost attraction, so I somehow thought "boyfriend" was the way to go, easiest way to get laid. It's not and it's somewhat dishonest, the chick feels cheap when you don't commit.

Docbear64 · 2017-06-25T17:38:37+00:00

Most of them don't actually want a relationship and when guys get too attached too soon she acts disgusted and tells her friends about the losers who won't stop chasing her.

They are big girls and they give their vaginas to who they want if you feel bad about that it's a problem you invented in your head.

vandaalen · 2017-06-25T20:38:56+00:00

You are creating a win-win situation. You get to fuck and she gets a little bit of drama for her head and to talk to about to her friends.

Terdmuffin · 2017-06-25T21:20:19+00:00

Everyone is using everyone else for something.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-06-26T04:32:01+00:00

Who is using whom? They're rewarding you for doing it.

You feel like you're "using" them because women have conditioned you to feel that way your whole life.

Title	Anyone else feel bad for "using" girls for sex and entertainment without committing to a relationship?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	June 25, 2017 3:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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