Girl I've been dating is hanging out with my friends without me. Should I be ok with it?

Certifiedfamilylaw · 2017-02-11T04:20:10+00:00

This is part of the reason why I limit my interactions with plates and friends simultaneously. You fucked up.

She could potentially drama up this situation when you break things off with her, including but not limited to talking mad shit about you, playing the victim, and causing a rift among the group.

I'd suggest breaking things off asap, however do it righteously. Not in a pissy little bitch manner.

If she's cool she won't fuck things up but ya know she's a woman so she could easily be a pain in the ass about this whole thing.

Its a good opportunity to see which of your friends truly are down, depending of course on how things play out.

Fuck other women and escalate with other women with her around. Shit, this could be a fast track to a three some

dr_warlock · 2017-02-11T06:40:07+00:00

Friends, women, and family should be kept separate. They all serve different purposes. Family can cock block (especially hers), pussy drives men against each other.

crg1017 · 2017-02-11T15:13:33+00:00

Your first lines answer your own question... You've lost interest. Let her go.

Personal experience: it will show you who your friends are and you might not like the answers. Since your BP guy friends GFs are now her buds, you are likely to be left behind. The guys will want to keep their girls happy in that BP world. And since she is friends with the GFs you will be left behind by the guys who are still getting laid. Sorry, but true. It's how I got here.

Welcome to the nuclear wastelands.

RedSkeller · 2017-02-11T17:03:50+00:00

Had this happen to me. The woman turned one of my friends into her orbiter and another two would constantly try to hook us back up. It's a mess then. Don't let the two worlds combine as it's just a shit show. I'd say give her some space and watch who you consider a friend.

[deleted] · 2017-02-11T13:22:39+00:00

You find her attractive, yet need to use viagra to fuck her. She's not your type, yet you would rather cuddle and talk with her than rail her? Two contradictions right there, get your shit straight.

cnzs · 2017-02-11T05:01:11+00:00

You're overreacting in terms of her hanging out with your friends but you're being a massive idiot by making yourself be with someone you don't want and leading her on. This might be one of those rare situations where you should tell her how you feel and try n be friends with her. It sounds like you're becoming the woman in the relationship, that's funny haha.

mbillion · 2017-02-11T20:21:17+00:00

So you interjected this seemingly perfect but uninteresting hottie into your life and she did everything right and made friends with your friends... Talk about a problem of your own design.

Sounds like you need to do some soul searching if what is bugging you is her and your friends all just being cool people

Kalidane · 2017-02-11T21:53:18+00:00

You don't feel good enough for her.

You have no frame and lack actionable interest in girls.

What do you think you should do?

LordThunderbolt · 2017-02-11T22:26:44+00:00

You invite her out on an out-of-country trip and she has met your close friends, you barely fuck her and spend most of your time cuddling. What could possibly go wrong?

WhoWeBe77 · 2017-02-11T05:39:37+00:00

This one's actually easy. Break it off, never lose focus of what you want. Fuck the rest, who cares

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-02-11T05:00:52+00:00

I wouldn't worry about her hanging with friends. Be more worried about Chad dick because you're too gay to fuck her

Title	Girl I've been dating is hanging out with my friends without me. Should I be ok with it?
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Date	February 11, 2017 3:57 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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