Is ghosting acceptable?

Archwinger · 2017-02-10T15:20:34+00:00

This girl has demonstrated that if the right guy comes along under the right circumstances and makes her feel something, she will be swept away in the moment and end up doing things with the right guy.

There are 3.5 billion other women on Earth you could start fresh with.

But here's your real problem: You're over-invested in this one girl. You're touting her good qualities (except for that one time she cheated on you! YOLO!), but at the same time, feel the need to go through her phone to make sure she's really yours, like this one girl matters oh so much and you'll never be able to replace her, so if she's texting other guys, you need to know and nip it quickly!

And the main reason you want to leave her isn't because you want to plate her and fuck six other women who are offering to suck your dick. It's because you want to hurt her since she hurt you.

Everything you want to do is about her. She's mommy, mommy doesn't understand your teenage angst, so you're going to be mean and belligerent to make sure mommy learns her lesson. Which is totally going to work because your girlfriend definitely can't find somebody else to fuck at some party two seconds after you ghost on her.

nastynickdr · 2017-02-10T15:59:07+00:00

Yeah. Kissed his cock man.

Look, you are hamstering reasons to stay with a cheater. She just showed you she is not ltr material. She broke your trust. Now there you are worried checking her phone. If you had abundance mentality and outcome independence you would dump her ass. And now you are scared to dump her. Grow a pair man.

Dont need to ghost her. "Look, you are a great person but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck". Dont tell her is because she cheated, or its all her fault, or shes a whore etc, its just that you are not compatible.

abdada · 2017-02-10T14:42:17+00:00

Sidebar, FAQ section, first fucking link "There's this one girl..."

GeorgeWallace68 · 2017-02-10T18:01:09+00:00

Set up a situation where you slam her at her place, play her out for anal then say you need to go clean up in the bathroom. Instead sneak out the bathroom window and ghost, go hard no contact, delete and block her on everything.

Title	Is ghosting acceptable?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	February 10, 2017 2:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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Sidebar, FAQ section, first fucking link "There's this one girl..."