Girl that rejected me, after leading me on, now thinks im a creep?

lietruth · 2017-01-06T22:28:38+00:00

Man who cares what she thinks. Don't fall into her frame here. It doesn't matter what she thinks because it looks like you didn't do anything wrong.

She's not a worthy prospect anyways & she's not interested in you. Move on. Pursue other women.

Yourreddit50 · 2017-01-06T22:29:16+00:00

Just never show any kind of attention towards her again dony even be her friend no more simple, cut dat bitch off, if she think yoire obsesssed just prove you dont give two fucks about her

boogerboy23 · 2017-01-06T22:30:31+00:00

She thinks you're a creep cause she deems you as having low SMV and thinks you tried to be intimate with her. Also it sounds like YOU were the one leading her on by pretending to be her friend all while actually trying to get into her pants which is creepy behavior

g4casting · 2017-01-06T22:32:29+00:00

Just a dumb bitch, not worthy of an afterthought. I can understand if people get hung up on nice decent girls that rejected them, but a stupid bitch? Move on.

FreshTits · 2017-01-06T22:50:36+00:00

Just let it go. The more you obsess with it and run circles around in your head about it plus talk to others will make you seem creepy. Why not just let it go. Who cares what she thinks.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-06T22:52:02+00:00

when she found out it was going to be just me and her

Did you lead her to believe it was going to be a group of friends and then do a "bait and switch" on her?

So i am trying to understand what is going on in her head.

Why does it matter? Forget about her. Do not engage.

Does she think i am a total creep and why (cuz i cared too much one time and now she thinks im obsessed with her)?

Doesn't matter. Prove her wrong by...moving on.

Did she say it to my friend knowing he would tell me?

Who cares?

Is she just a dumb girl who is full of herself?

Probably, but who cares?

I am looking to understand the thought processes that go behind what she said

Look toward gaming other girls and forget any defective ones you meet along the way.

evilcatnap · 2017-01-07T00:38:53+00:00

After she rejected you, you became neither a viable option or an orbiter. The only way to flip this is to go cold and increase your visible attraction with other women.

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T00:57:22+00:00

She thinks you are a creep because whatever psychological shit you have that causes you to obsess over what a bitch that doesnt even like you thinks and "make a game of it" (your words in a reply) leaked into your interactions and she could smell the fucking stink of it on you.

Tldr

She is right. Stop having creept obsessions and pursue other women.

Title	Girl that rejected me, after leading me on, now thinks im a creep?
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Comments	12
Date	January 6, 2017 10:26 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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