We both cheated, please help guys!

jnsu_ · 2016-11-04T11:44:19+00:00

Dont ask why, just do this. stop what youre doing and listen. first take a bat. then put your head on it and spin 3-4 times. till you get dizzy and she blew him in the bathroom

[deleted] · 2016-11-04T11:59:55+00:00

She is hysterical so you don't see her as anything but a victim. That way they get away with shitty behavior and get attention for it! Yaaaay!

Look man, have some boundaries. This is how you build a quality you while others try to break you down. That way, you can up and replace her with someone that will add value in your life, not chip away at it.

Downward spiral or upward spiral. You choose which and mirror by action.

rayyaal · 2016-11-04T12:44:50+00:00

She had a party last night and I told her I wanted to end things over her behaviour and she started having a full blown 2/3 hour panic attack and was screaming and everyone was so worried. So I decided she was actually telling the truth and took her back

Stopped reading there. She goes full fuckin' AWALT and you take her back? God forbid everyone be anything but "worried" when a woman loses her mind.

900PercentSaltIntake · 2016-11-04T12:28:39+00:00

You decided to break up with her at a party?

Good to know I don't invite you types.

quicklogaccount · 2016-11-04T13:06:59+00:00

Well, your reaction is natural. There is a lot more in being cheated on than in cheating, and rest assured, the way she looks at your infidelity makes it far easier for her to handle it than handling hers is for you.
Don't cheat though. It's a shitty thing to do.

Her reaction of not taking responsibility and giving excuse after excuse is also as common as it gets. We address it as lack of agency.

To put a word, you figured out about what to do already. Hard next. You don't have to handle this sort of shit, ever. You might feel like handling it when you're around 40, experienced, and wants kids. Until you get there, don't bother keeping relationships with women that put you through a hassle, LEARN TO QUIT. Root abundance mentality in your brain, it'll help a lot.

As for your "lack of empathy", don't worry a lot.
Read a bit, avoid "AWALT" examples from the main sub, avoid the rage porn, you have enough of it already. With time, you'll understand women are like that and take it as a natural law. A bit like, there's no Santa, there's no magic, there are no super powers, and women aren't pure flawless angels god sent to make the world pretty but rather creatures with their own egoistic drives. Rest assured we're not very different for them. You'll learn how to handle it, and in no time you'll see the ends meeting, allowing you to make relationships that work better for both you and the women you relate with.

Tiway22 · 2016-11-04T14:46:15+00:00

Jesus this chick sounds insane. I think you'd be better off without her.

MrEiffel · 2016-11-04T12:04:06+00:00

Stop giving a fuck, go no contact and move on with your life.

If you date crazy, it will be fun at first and fucked up at the end, every single time.

nastynickdr · 2016-11-04T14:57:31+00:00

Ah, the thrill of drama.

You are too young for a LTR. Be single, improve yourself, have fun, meet girls, study, travel, learn. And this chick is batshit crazy, stop trying to understand the "WHY". She is a woman, she will do shit that women do. And you got yourself one that is high on the crazy and drama queen scale. Watch her actions, thats what matters.

Title	We both cheated, please help guys!
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Date	November 4, 2016 11:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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