As a guy in his 20s who wants his 30s to be filled with alcohol fueled partying and tons of wild experiences along those lines, what can I do to eventually make it a reality?

Locogooner · 2016-10-25T20:09:28+00:00

From this post, I can tell you either don't have a career, nor take it seriously.

crixusin · 2016-10-25T19:58:12+00:00

What can I do right now in my 20s to make the lifestyle a reality in my 30s?

What I can offer to you as advice is to grow up. You're living in a fantasy world.

If you want to do those things, you first have to make a lot of money.

To make the amount of money you want to do a ton of blow, buy tables at clubs, and have women drool over you, first requires that you grow up.

Ironically, once you have this kind of money, this lifestyle won't interest you anymore.

Source:

Mid 20s and make alot of money, but no longer party really.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-10-25T20:00:59+00:00

GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN. I beat this topic into the ground, yet I see post after post on here about philosophical, boring guys who just want to sit across from their dates/plates and discuss their sobriety like it's gonna impress her. Sure abstaining from alcohol, weed, junk food, drugs, etc. is what we should strive for AS INDIVIDUALS but when with your girls ya'll really need to:

stfu about your abstinence
stop judging those who live hedonistically

Let's say you bring a new girl to your place. Offer her a drink, pack a bowl, have ice cream, and order a pizza/head to the pancake house. If she's into pills hit up the plug - even if nothing comes of it just knowing the connects is an extreme panty dropper.

Contrast this with trp group think bullshit that says:

Mention you don't drink and play it off.
If she smokes weed insta-next.
Cook her a healthy meal.
Screen her to make sure ya'lls views align. If she's a feminist make her cry. If she supports Hillary insta-next.
Discuss intellectual topics to prove your mental superiority.
Avoid taking her out to eat, but if you must go Dutch or she's nexted.
Pills are a red flag - insta-next.
If she puts out the first night insta-next

As red pill men, we understand there are two laws- be attractive, don't be unattractive. Abstaining from drugs and alcohol, eating healthy, lifting, style, intellect, etc. make us attractive as men, yes. But forcing that lifestyle onto girls is gonna get you a reputation as a total buzz kill.

Girls just want to have fun! All the cool stuff you are already prepared to do with her is gonna build a positive feedback loop of attraction. She's hungry so you order good food. She's thirsty so you pour her some wine. She's anxious so you smoke a cigarette or smoke a bowl or pop a pill. The key is to act like this is totally natural regardless of your personal slut-shaming views. STOP STIFLING HER SLUTTINESS!!! Feed her, make her feel comfortable, and watch her smile when she sucks you.

STOP DISCUSSING RELIGION, POLITICS, PHILOSOPHY, YOUR "JOURNEY", WORK, AND PAST PARTNERS. Stick to fun topics only - tv, movies, music, hobbies, stories, sports, and ambitions. Positive emotions only, get her smiling and laughing and HAVING FUN and BEING COMFORTABLE with you having your arms around her waist, her legs across your lap, kissing, making out, and ultimately putting your cock in her mouth. STOP COCKBLOCKING YOURSELF.

Be fun and have fun. Blare music, chug beer, smoke pot, eat pizza, and fuck her while she smiles.

Action items you can do now to prepare for the pussy onslaught:

Learn to not be jealous. I highly recommend an MMF threesome with your LTR. No sword crossing, ofc.
Learn how to play off being a player. No girl wants to feel like she is second best. Do not brag about your lifestyle, sexual escapades, or talk about your exes.
Learn to stfu. Party girls love to get guys talking and spending, then bounce once they get bored or creeper out. Be exciting and mysterious, not an "open book". Condense your best stories into one or two sentences. Say more with less.
Consider reducing/eliminating alcohol consumption when you are not out and APPROACHING. Your tolerance will lower (inhibitions will be lowered more quickly, and you won't feel as pressured to "keep up") and you can use that extra money to buy girls the first drink.
If you don't smoke weed, keep some around for girls at all times. And ice cream. And tampons. Also if you do smoke never get high before a date. Many fun girls insta-next on this if your high on the first date because they crave attention and weed makes you not pay them attention.
Flex on social media. Keep the snapchat story popping, and post pics on instagram with celebrities and beautiful people.

Frigzy · 2016-10-25T20:56:47+00:00

Get money.

But more importantly, get friends who share your view. Go out, talk to people who like going out, invite people and make sure the night is a blast, get invited, etc etc.

Make sure you can afford to do so both time, money and energy wise in your weekdays without feeling like shit every time the buzzer goes off in the morning.

Plenty of time to abandon the hedonistic lifestyle after you indulged yourself with it. I personally don't like the idea, but that's cus I've already been there.

Good luck!

648262 · 2016-10-26T01:00:57+00:00

Build a foundation that creates a steady income of money to pay for the fun in your 30s. It is very easy.

And read some Plato on a Friday while you're at it - he was the first Endorsed Contributor.

Ganaria_Gente · 2016-10-26T03:17:55+00:00

im in the exact same situation as you, OP.

young
broke (well, not really, but im far from rich)
wanting a good life, screw all the established ways of how you're 'supposed' to do

some ideas i have been mulling over for the past few years

NEVER get married
NEVER get one itis or LTR (unless you can make this a open relationship)
ALWAYS wear condom
get vasectomy
SAVE your money, always live in the most financially minimalist way possible. money matters.
work out. get fit in a way taht attracts positive attention
hardest part: find like minded people (both guys and girls). how? if possible, get a part time job being a club promoter of some sort.

AFPJ · 2016-10-25T20:01:49+00:00

What can I do right now in my 20s to make the lifestyle a reality in my 30s?

All I read was "how can I sacrifice my enjoyment of the present in hopes of an unknown future" - don't do this. First off, unless you're genetically disposed to function well on a basically permanent diet of alcohol (there is such a thing), don't fucking do this, it's poison to most people. If you wanna fuck sluts and party hard, the time to do that is now.

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