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[–]legion3272 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
The thing I like best from internet searching is Rugged/Workwear/Super Americana
What you like best is what you're going to be most comfortable in. What you're most comfortable in is what will most facilitate your advances in the rest of your life because confidence is key. That said, wear what you're comfortable in and grow the beard to go with it if you're comfortable with that too. I'm not saying you should ALWAYS do what is most comfortable (otherwise we'd all be up to our eyeballs in porn and cheeto dust). But when it comes to how you present yourself to the world and others, confidence is key and if that style gives you confidence, then go with it. If you know you're going to feel awkward in a gold chain and a track suit, don't wear it. If you know you're going to feel awkward with shorts hanging off your ass, a cap cocked to the side, and a jersey, then don't wear that either. Go with what gives you confidence and with what you know works for you... as long as it's not holey teal sweatpants from 1993 and a grey t-shirt with a tiger and a lion fighting on it.
[–]TryDoingSomethingNew2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't agree exactly. For example, when I made a major style change, wearing T-shirts was what was comfortable at that time, and wearing things like I did later was not as easy at first.
However over time it becomes easier and being treated better than other men due to be well-dressed is wonderful.
Looking good and being attractive means putting in the effort - wearing clothes simply with whatever is most comfortable is not being well dressed.
[–]legion3270 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's also quite true. This is exactly what I was getting at when I said "as long as it's not holey teal sweatpants from 1993 and a grey t-shirt with a tiger and a lion fighting on it." I'm saying do what is the most comforatable (thereby imparting confidence) as long as you are actually well-dressed.
[–]TryDoingSomethingNew1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok, got you.
[–]TryDoingSomethingNew0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I'm not in Europe, so please take what I suggest as perhaps not 100% applicable, but what has worked for me here in the USA I strongly believe would apply to most modern countries.
I wear both "formalish" (say, "business casual" as we say here) and casual clothing depending on where I go, and I often receive compliments and have gotten attraction from women, too.
My suggestions would be: (business casual:)
For casual, I wear both well-fitting henley shirts, accessories like bracelets from eBay (masculine looking, metallic/leather/rubber) and occassionally a necklace that compliments my shirt.
Whatever you wear, it needs to compliment your body: it needs to fit well and/or be tailored!! Can't stress this enough.
Of course, sport coats/blazers with a crisp shirt look great.
Most the of the 18-22 guys I see look like kids because they wear lame T-shirts and put no thought into fit or fashion. Also, their posture is terrible and makes them look weak and beta.
If you want to see some nice shirts, look under casual button-up shirts at Macys.com. I'm not sure what's available for you where you are but I'm trying to give some general suggestions.
[–]legion3270 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
It occured to me above that when I said "well-dressed" that it might be somewhat amorphous for some and that I may be taking my own knowledge for granted.
TDSN had great guidelines here. Business casual is where it's at. I would also add the following:
Jewelry is for women. Less is better. None is best. Wearing a flashy watch or earrings or rings is ridiculous. It says "LOOK AT ME" and makes you look desparate.
Belt and shoes should be the same color. Brown/brown or black/black is the most common.
Sneakers or cross-trainers are for working out, not everyday wear. Use the appropriate shoe for the appropriate occasion. Loafers can often be dressed up or down (depending on the style of loafer) and are, more often than not, a valid option for most occasions.
Clothes should be in good repair. Holes in your clothes is for teenagers. Distressed is fine but a bunch of holes looks like trash.
T-shirts are fine, but a collared button-down is better. Everyone is wearing a T. You are not everyone. Wearing a button-down shirt shows that you put in a little more effort than the guy next to you. Short-sleeve button-downs are fine if it's truly brutally hot out and you truly need the breathability. Otherwise, go with a long-sleeve and then just roll the sleeves up or down as weather dictates. A woman likes the type of man who will roll his sleeves up and get to work. You can't roll them up if you have none to roll up, eh?
Jeans are a staple for most folks and are a fine choice. They can be dressed up or down. If you're going to wear slacks, avoid pleated slacks like the plague.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't wear a button down. Wear a button up.
button down
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button up
Notice how George doesnt have a faggot ass button on his collar.
And always roll the sleeves. Do not get a short sleeve button down ever.
You should only be buying button up shirts. IE no button on the collar. And always long sleeved. If you living miami/carribean get a linen shirt.
Make sure it is fitted correctly. If you have a belly. Get rid of your belly.
Right "button down" refers to buttons on the collar. "Button up" refers to a button front but none on the collar. I actually have probably only one actual button down and most of my shirts are button up. For whatever reason, I've always used the term "button down" to refer to all shirts with buttons on the front regardless of the collar. That said, my bad on the terminology.
I also own zero short sleeve button up shirts. However, I know some guys will complain about getting overly hot. Personally, I'd rather deal with the heat and look better. Either way, still better than a low-effort T-shirt.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah fuck those short sleeve button shirts. Ugly old baby boomers wear those.
[–]TryDoingSomethingNew0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
With regards to jewelry, it greatly depends. There are plenty of accessories that are definitely masculine and compliment an outfit. I'm assuming you meant gold or silver, though.
Mine are definitely unique, and I've gotten a few comments on my bracelets (sometimes braided leather, or steel/rubber, etc combinations). I would definitely not use them otherwise.
I have a few necklaces but use them to compliment the colors/style of my casual outfits, not clash with them. That is critical I think. Ironically, they're very inexpensive, often < $2 from China via eBay, but set themselves apart from what other guys wear.
(For example, I have a black cross pendant, a small shield/pendant/cross, cool looking items).
But I understand that anything gaudy is distracting and if not done well, is bad.
I never see men wearing T-shirts "optimally"; 99.9% percent of the time their shirts are too big, or have commercial logos and look like free cheap T-shirts that are promotional items. Ugh!
A man with a well-fitting T-shirt, yeah I can see that. I wear slightly tight fitting henleys that compliment my physique.
Yeah, button down shirts are great, especially in distinct designs and not the same boring patterns. Those take much more effort to find.
[–]legion3270 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm assuming you meant gold or silver, though.
Correct. I'm talking about the oversized silver or gold watches, diamond/gold ear studs, gold/silver chains, etc. All of that shit is simply begging for attention.
I personally wear no jewelry at all but I've seen my own father pull off a tasteful braided leather bracelet like the one you mention paired with a small medallion (a small faded/subdued Spanish doubloon - he's a sailor) on a thin leather cord around his neck. He's also in his late 50s so his SMV is pretty on point with the "silver fox" look and peak earning potential so he can pull that off.
I wear slightly tight fitting henleys that compliment my physique.
Can't believe I forgot to mention henleys but yeah absolutely. Ditto on your well-fitting polos earlier as well.
[–]TryDoingSomethingNew0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok, yes you are so correct about terrible jewelry.
Also, guys who wear necklaces that are too long, and with the wrong tone/color metal for their clothing. Maybe that died in the 90s though; I don't know.
[–]legion3270 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd love to believe it did but I still see way too much of it to truly think that. Depends on the place you live too though I think. Every time I travel to Miami on business, I want to stab my eyes out.
[–]Wheyman920 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you actually trying to say that wearing a Rolex makes you look desperate? Jewelry on men is perfectly fine. A gold watch and gold ring are perfectly fine. It all depends on the outfit, the venue, and most importantly the man wearing the ensemble.
No, I am not trying to say that. I am saying that.
[–]sassypaella0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Young European here. You should think about two things: what you like, and what your market is.
As you have already stated, you have a thing for americana. Great: that's a mainstream look that you can achieve with ease, and later expand on it. It allows you to gradually experiment and get a broader liking for style.
The other aspect is your market. When you dress, you're selling yourself, trying to express something to someone. Your market defines what is acceptable to wear (for example, office job and suits). Given that, what is your sexual market? Are you into hippie girls? Party girls? Hip girls? Whatever you like, try and think what these girls like.
Now, I'm not saying you should dress for someone. You shouldn't mimic other guys just to fuck a girl or two. But knowing your market will allow you to know what you can pull off. As a personal example, I'm really into fashion, and the girls I like are, too: actually, knowing how this works, being a sneakerhead... adds to my SMV.
To give you more of a precise advice: check the mfadvice subreddit and fully learn the inspo albums. They will serve as a stepping stone for your personal style.
[–]RedWinter880 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think style and outfit start with the shoes. Given the rugged workwear look, I assume dress is similar.
Shoes, gonna be boots obviously. I'd recommend Clarks Desert Boots. Red wings are a pricier option. For a casual shoe Chuck Taylor's come to mind.
Pants- dark jeans, probably a medium blue jean, and then chinos (I like the dark Khaki/acorn color). Black jeans if that's your thing.
Belt- some badass rugged leather belt, brown and/or black
Shirts- really where I think the style takes a big turn. I'd say "masculine", so tshirts, Henley (if your in shape), and button ups. For button ups I think the breast pocket on each side gives off the Americana vibe. Also flannel shirts and the like.
Outerwear - Field jacket style to complete the look. Watch- if you want/need one. Timex weekender/Hamilton khaki
Basic rundown- brown chukkas (clark db), jeans, and a button up shirt (white vneck underneath). the button up should be on the more casual side, so like a flannel or a double breast pocket mechanic style shirt.
For shorts, chino shorts, vneck or Henley, Chuck Taylor's and some aviator sunglasses
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Ever since I started using /r/streetwear i've been getting a lot more compliments about my fashion sense.
[–]crixusin1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, that's the ugliest shit I've ever seen.
Wanna look like a chav? Follow that sub's fashion sense.
Like look at this dude: http://imgur.com/SbPB41S
He looks like an idiot.
Here's another one: http://i.imgur.com/KrnA0uj.jpg
Dudes got like a condom on his head.
Wanna be a free thinker? Make your own style.
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[–]crixusin2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Every single one of them looks like I could break them in half.
Do you want to be a hipster, or do you want to have some masculinity? They literally look like women to me. Their shoes don't have laces. The 2nd guy looks like he's in Ukraine and has zero leg definition.
[–]IDefyAxioms0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at someone like Magic Fox (Instagram link). He does a dressed-down version of /r/streetwear. He doesn't have huge legs either, I know.
It's not the clothes themselves that are the issue (though the style does get crazy at times), it's the person wearing them.
[–]SW98760 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea I completely agree
[–]sassypaella-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
None of us is 'making his own style'. If you think so, then you don't understand how fashion works, even at the most basic level.
[–]crixusin0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I make my own style. Are you telling me I'm not? How can you justifiably tell me what I am and am not doing?
[–]sassypaella0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Because, just like a woman, you are not a special snowflake. However you like to dress as, it is a product of recent culture. Not to mention, seeing how conservative you are regarding streetwear, I am assured you don't go too far at what your 'own' style is. Guess you are not wearing a noragi with bell pants.
[–]crixusin0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Your response lacks any evidence that you have a grasp on written language, but I'll bite even though it makes little sense.
However you like to dress as, it is a product of recent culture.
No. I dress like a 1400s English noble actually.
am assured you don't go too far at what your 'own' style is.
You know what's more important than spending a bunch of money on expensive, stupid looking fads?
Actually worrying about important things. You can buy all the bell pants you want, but when those pants come off, you probably look like shit.
I have girls oogle me when I wear stained tshirts and shorts to the gym.
[–]legion3270 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So your point (outside of the obvious trolling) is "I lift, therefore I don't need to dress myself well."
golfclap
Well done.
[–]crixusin-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You're putting words in my mouth. I never said anything of the sort.
What I'm merely pointing out is that if you're spending so much time worrying about what you wear, you've already lost sight of the things that actually matter.
[–]sassypaella0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Said someone posting on reddit. Clothes are important; they are both a cultural product and a mean to express yourself. If you think that knowing about fashion translates into 'spending so much time' and 'worrying', you got it all wrong.
Oh, and I hope your are proficient in your third language.
[–]crixusin-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Said someone posting on reddit.
Says someone who has been posting on trp for years, as opposed to your maybe 3 months of information.
I'm telling you from my vast experience of these issues, that you are focusing on the wrong things.
You can take them or leave them, that's your choice. But you'd be wrong to not listen to someone who completely changed their life by absorbing the relevant information in this sub before you even knew it existed.
And I didn't do that by listening to 3 monthers.
No.
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