Inability to get it up for sex is keeping me from getting close to any girl

suchhound · 2016-03-04T20:56:24+00:00

Not sure if this will help but this is what worked for me

I used to have performance anxiety Had a few mishaps and the thought of not being able to deliver killed my erections

So in order to get rid of the anxiety I started focusing on having fun and being playful in bed

Once really into it I also made fun of my self for having a small dick

Saying please don't be disappointed of my pencil dick or this is going to be the best 2 minutes of your life or something along those lines then you grab her hand an place it on your cock and have her feel you out

her reaction of grabbing a full sized erection was a huge ego boost and that made me forget about my own anxiety

So what I'm saying is that you might have to trick yourself into performing

SW9876 · 2016-03-04T19:14:07+00:00

Are you following no fap/no porn?

BradLightningRooster · 2016-03-04T19:24:49+00:00

Do you have problems staying hard while masturbating or viewing porn?

If yes then you should go see a urologist as you might have a real problem.

If everything works when you're jerking it you should probably stop fapping so much and see if that improves things. What are you anxious about? Are you afraid she won't be satisfied or are you afraid she'll cry rape and ruin your life?

Getting a girl pregnant was my greatest fear and I had a very low desire to have actual sex as a result. Once I had my vasectomy last year my sexlife is immensely improved though I still suffer somewhat from the kungfu grip syndrome from all those years of heavy porn use.

So run down the diagnostics tree and find out what triggers your problem and work to remedy that.

Mr_Badass · 2016-03-05T21:17:26+00:00

Try doing Kegel exercises when taking a piss.

Title	Inability to get it up for sex is keeping me from getting close to any girl
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Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	March 4, 2016 7:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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