Reality check wanted: Is the kind of life I want realistically achievable?

machimus · 2016-02-10T02:03:16+00:00

No, because you spend all your time on here posting questions doubting whether a rock star life is achievable after college.

Same fucking questions. For a guy like you? No.

Apexk9 · 2016-02-10T02:10:06+00:00

Yes but you'll have things called responsibilities and bills which will make it hard to do some of the stuff.

But if you're working 5 days a week you can party hard Fri and Sat.

Plus if that's the life you want I'd suggest having a group of girlfriends as it will be more beneficial.

ManliestDwarf · 2016-02-10T03:04:02+00:00

Systems vs Goals

A few parties a month is a goal. Being active in the party scene and networking with party people is a system.

Attending various social events is a really abstract goal. Being part of a scene (crossfit, MMA, hospitality, tech meetups) that parties is a system.

Tons of sex with attractive girls is a goal. Constantly improving SMV/Game is a system.

Look at your peers, facebook, work friends, friends of friends, celebrities who have the life you want and model your life after them. If there are people living that life, then by definition its possible.

Goals aren't useful for lifestyle design. A health goal is to put on 30lbs of muscle. Lifting constantly and eating alot is a system.

IVIaskerade · 2016-02-10T05:51:40+00:00

Yes. Look at Kirill. It's going to be hard work and you're probably not going to make it, but it is attainable.

Title	Reality check wanted: Is the kind of life I want realistically achievable?
Author	dantesinferno1
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Comments	4
Date	February 10, 2016 1:49 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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