Women are like devices. In some conditions, they are great, but in other conditions they suck. The device didn't change, only the conditions you're using it in changed. The device has no loyalty or allegiance with you. You could be using it or someone else could be using it, it doesn't give a shit.

A Ferrari is great on a beautiful, large, well-kept track. In off-road conditions, it's fucking torture and/or worthless. The girl is the Ferarri and the man is the track.

In fact, it's probably worse than this, she's like a rented Ferarri - you don't even own her. But you can't blame the Ferrari because you don't have a cool track to drive it on, and you can't blame the Ferarri when it breaks down because you gave it a shit path to drive on. The track is such things as your looks and your masculinity.