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[–]4Stayinghereforreal29 points30 points31 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She likes having sex with tall, black basketball players. She cannot, however, get them to stick around.
She is seeking you to stick around, while she continues to lust for tall, black basketball players. That says very little about you, except that she does not lust for you, because preferences.
How do you proceed? Focus on your career, lift, eat right, sleep, socialize, etc. It is all there in the sidebar. Read it. Then go find a woman into guys like mobrowncheeks. Avoid women who straight up tell you they are sexually into other sorts of guys, but are willing to date you.
[–]midastwentytwo12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she will look at you as nothing more than just someone she fell back on. you were not a priority. you were her fall back.
I cannot stress this enough: DO NOT. and i repeat: DO NOT. GO OUT OF YOUR WAY FOR HER.
if you are horny, shoot her a text and tell her to come over. but do nothing more. do not buy her dinner. do not buy her snacks. do not rent movies or whatever it is the fuck people do now. do not drive to her place. do not make time for her. do not do anything to cater to her. because you will literally be wasting your time and effort.
go make some goals and pursue them. like the guy before me said: lift, eat right, read (in general, it makes you smarter), sleep (makes you smarter and healthier), and do your own thing.
this girl has a set designation for you in your mind and sorry to say it, but it is too far along to change it. she knows what she wants, and she knows what she can fall back on.
you can try for her all you want, it wont do anything. trust me, I know. i have done it. multiple guys have done it. we can chase after as many women that dont want us as much as we want them. it wont do anything.
just accept the sunk cost, get what you can at her own expense, not yours. and move on.
[–]NotUpToAnythingGood6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Enjoy her settling for you. Reap whatever benefits you can. Don't invest heavily in her.
Besides, you are 19. You have your life ahead of you. You still have options. Most people aren't really ready / grown up enough for marriage at that point. Hell, I wasn't ready for marriage until my mid 20s and I had been married since I was 20.
[–]frequentlywrong4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do I proceed?
She came right out as an alpha widow. You will never be the guy she truly wants. So don't bother. Find a better woman.
[–]StrongButter3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep her as a plate.
Keep stance, and don't catch feelings.
[–]2comment2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't stress yourself over this bitch. Keep working on yourself.
[–]GunsGermsAndSteel2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why the fuck do you care?
Tell her you usually only go for models, but you've decided to stop being so shallow and and you're gonna try to date her instead.
Then fuck her a couple more times.
Then tell her you really prefer models, and stop talking to her.
Or you could try being blacker and taller.
[–]bittr_n_swt4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
fuck her one time then leave her
[–]youeatlikeachild3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like a skank that is a high candidate for having a pussy disease she can send your way, if I have knowledge of them being a sportstitute I move on, those are usually some of the filthiest girls you can deal with.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha the dumb ass already banged it twice. Break out the Clorox.
[–]Mobrowncheeks2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's the thing. I've had sex with her twice already. I thought that I was applying all my seduction techniques with a red pill mind set. She just hit me with this last night and I came here afterwards
[–] points points points 56 years ago | Copy Link
Just use a condom and keep fucking her until you get tired of her. Then tell her it's because you don't really date girls like her, but you were enjoying fucking her.
[–]RPmatrix0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link
Just use a condom and keep fucking her until you get tired of her. Then tell her it's because you don't really date superficial girls bits of fluff like her, but you did enjoy fucking her, a few times!
haha! This sounds like a cool Plan!
[–]4Stayinghereforreal2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She simply let it slip that, to her, you are beta bux, and therefore, as we know, you always will be. There is not really much more to be said. If you are okay with that, so be it. If not, move on; there are plenty of other women out there.
[–]redpillcynic 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plate. Find others
[–]favours_of_the_moon1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Put it in her butt and make it hurt.
Demand threesomes with her friends. Cum in her hair.
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She likes big dicks, and it seems you don't have one according to her. Move on bro.
[–]throw_em_all 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Consider her a plate, keep her around for sex and practical abundance mentality, but keep doing what you should be doing, gym, studies, game, hobbies, etc.
You now know two things, she's not LTR material and you need to work on your SMV, plan ahead with that information at hand.
[–]Futdashukup-2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She's a nasty bitch and is with you because you have low self-esteem. Most people see kindness as weakness.
[–]Mobrowncheeks1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol I definitely don't have low self esteem. I've just never been in this situation and would like to be advised by people who won't try to act like it's okay
[–]Futdashukup0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are thinking of seeing a girl who said she likes bbc action and you're not her type. Thats low s.e Dude, i'm not getting at you, just showing you reality. I've been in your situation, lieing to myself like a bitch.
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