This chick is a 9/10. Shes my best friend’s cousin. So I only see her when I am invited out to their family gatherings, which seldomly happens. Every time I see her there’s a bit of flirting and she sends IOIs. My game is not at the level it needs to be to get a 9 or 10. But it hasn’t let me down yet.

Her mom likes me. Seems like I’m a shoo-in but the girl is in a LTR. How should I proceed? Should I text for a meet up or just keep it casual and send one or two texts “like good seeing ya last night. Let’s get some dinner at the soup kitchen sometime” or something playful. I feel like I need to push for a meetup but at the same time keep it super casual till I see her again.