Did this girl I slept with try to turn me into an orbiter?

fnordsnord · 2015-09-14T04:00:37+00:00

Flatter yourself: maybe you weren't an orbiter. Maybe you were plan B, in case she isn't able to lock Chad Thundercock down.

It doesn't matter. You got "Let's Just Be Friends." Any time you get that, the answer should be a shit eating grin, "sure," and then zero contact. Ignore all texts, let calls go to voicemail, and delete contact information. When approached in person with "but I wanted to be friends," say vaguely "We are. I've just been busy."

Then deny her your time, energy, and resources. Why should she get what she wants when you don't get what you want?

Don't be an ass or rude about it. Just fade.

[deleted] · 2015-09-14T02:43:56+00:00

If she is fucking her boyfriend while texting you that just makes you free attention/validation

Danedina · 2015-09-14T10:58:05+00:00

Yes, she tried to keep you in orbit, but it's not that you failed at anything. On the contrary, you played the role she set for you.

Women cheat like crazy while on vacation. Statistics say they cheat more than men do when on holiday. It's their chance to fuck around "just this once." You were her holiday hook-up, and now she's back with her trusty, reliable boyfriend. You played your role and now she's done with you.

SarsaparillaCorona · 2015-09-14T02:29:48+00:00

Given a choice, women would rather have a new orbiter as opposed to a new fuck buddy. The reason why is because assuming they know how to play and are attractive enough for there to be demand, all it takes is one night out and she has a list of men who she can get dates/hookups from. But orbiters need to be cultivated and tamed, specially if you want them to do things for you apart from be an emotional pillow, so good job not falling into that trap.

Title	Did this girl I slept with try to turn me into an orbiter?
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Date	September 14, 2015 2:23 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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