I've been following a red pill lifestyle for about 6 months.. I just came out of a bad life situation and I started working on myself. Long story short, I'm pretty well developed socially and I've had a pretty good time in my life... I got addicted to pills and gained about 60lbs during a two year family crisis.

I got back in pretty good shape. I lost 40 lbs, moved back to my college town to finish school, got a great job with good money, and I'm about to rent a nice house with a big backyard. I'm 24 now.

My roommate and I have been hanging out with this chick and her roommates + any guys they chill with for about four months. She has a 19 year old boyfriend but he moves around a lot. She's only 20.

Thing is - he's been gone for about a month. She hasn't missed a single day at my place.. she loves it over here. She's planning on moving away with him for a few months and coming back but she keeps talking to me about how nervous she is, second thoughts, etc.

I have everything a grown man should have.. I have money to do whatever, I have smoke, food, stocked bathroom, nice vehicle, etc, etc.. while her boyfriend is still just a boy on daddy's money. She notices this because she talks about how "attractive" it is for a man to have his own things.

She's been staying over really late lately (I have to get up at 6 AM, she leaves about 3AM).. and relying on me to take care of her because she is struggling. I'm not sure if she wants me to fuck her, wants me to tell her to stay, and be her man or she's using me cause her little bf is gone. They dated in high school but they've only been together this time for 2 months.

I'm absolutely not in love with her or whatever, although she is extremely pretty and a lot of fun.. I'm also not about to treat her like my girlfriend if she ain't my fucking girlfriend.

She's just sending me a lot of mixed signals and it is starting to piss me off so I'm either going to tell her to leave me alone (I have other girls I chill with) or I'm going to see about getting that ass.

What should I do? I'm running into a lot of shit tests on a chick that ain't even mine?? She trying to turn me into an orbiter? I don't ever even initiate contact, it's her everyday. I'm pretty sure I'm being tested for when their relationship falls through.. but that shit kind of pisses me off too.

Give me your honest opinions, harsh or not..

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How can you hook up and still keep plausible deniability?