Does the act of paying a prostitute for sex, come naturally to some men more than others? or is it just individual circumstances?

I had an conversation with a man recently, discussing how several years ago I had worked as a prostitute for a time.

After a while he admitted that he put forward an idea that I initially found a bit disturbing. Namely that if a man has the financial resources, he will instinctively at some stage use them as a way of securing a sexual relationship with women.

Whether it's gifts, expensive dates, or just outright giving them money.

It's society that instill the view in men that prostitution is wrong, using such indirect methods as the masculine idea, that a man shouldn't have to pay for sex.

So do you think it's a instinct, that will appear in most men if they have the resources?