3 days trying to swallow the pill and have many questions

fnordsnord · 2015-06-22T19:49:47+00:00

Lifting is the go-to because it builds strength, testosterone, and confidence, but it's more important to be physically active. If you have a sport that you play, 3 - 4 times a week you are probably ok without iron.

But we are evolved (or designed, if that's your thing) to be physically active. If we're not, we're not going to be happy.

TDCRedPill · 2015-06-23T04:43:17+00:00

I know that I'm good looking but I'm lacking an alpha mentality. Do I still need to lift? I'm not against lifting and do have a gym-card, but is it necessary if you're good looking?

YES. Regardless of where you are, you will be better. It sucks, it's painful, requires discipline, and it sets you apart. Do it. Just fucking DO IT.

How does RP's feel about LTRs? Is it even a thing or is it all about fuck and chuck?

Do as you like. You are the sole arbiter of what you will and wont accept in your life. Stop putting the decision making responsibility on others. Your life, your love(s), and it's all on you, whether they succeed or fail.

How does women you already know react to the change in attitude after you have swallowed the red pill? Will they still see you as beta, but now also a douche?

STOP LEAVING THE DECISIONS TO OTHERS. This is your only life, and you're pretty much saying that other people's judgement is a concern. FUck 'em. If they're with you, great. If they're not, no one needs that kind of negativity in their life. Its YOUR life. Some will NOT be happy about it. Fuck 'em. Some will be overjoyed.

But how well has following the lead of people who shat on you been working so far? Your life, your standards. It's time to own it.

What is this phenomenon?

Way guess on way little info, but here's mine. It's you still trying to figure out how to communicate and deal with people. What do you bring to their lives? Why would they want to be around you? It sounds like you're pushing the envelope on general aggression, and not connecting with the dudes you want to connect with. How are you 'being a friend' to these folks? If you're intimidating, good looking, and don't bring any value outside of smile that melts girls and an attitude that causes irritation, yeah, they're not gonna care. Great looking dude that's an asshole? Fuck 'im, rather have real friends. But a likeable, good looking, respectable guy is everyone's favorite.

[deleted] · 2015-06-22T19:44:27+00:00

Lifting is so much more than visual.

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ziyf7/lifting_is_about_more_than_pussy_its_a_philosophy/

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39zsbf/lift_even_if_you_dont_feel_like_it_lift_even_if/

tepper2 · 2015-06-22T19:54:09+00:00

Three days is nothing, this is something that you're going to have in the back of your mind every day for the rest of your life.

Do I still need to lift? I'm not against lifting and do have a gym-card, but is it necessary if you're good looking?

You don't need to. But I can tell you personally that even with everything else I have to contribute to my SMV, shit got a lot easier when I started lifting regularly. It contributes to better posture, more strength, and increased confidence.

Do you have to? No. Do you have any reason not to? No.

How does RP's feel about LTRs? Is it even a thing or is it all about fuck and chuck?

Don't let TRP decide whether or not you want a LTR. If you do, pursue it. But be aware that LTRs are hard mode for most guys.

How does women you already know react to the change in attitude after you have swallowed the red pill? Will they still see you as beta, but now also a douche?

It's not an overnight thing. You'll be improving for the rest of your life (if you do it right). Eventually they'll notice the change. You can't go from total beta to hyperconfident in a short amount of time. Build on achievements and continue improving and you'll see a difference in how people (both sexes) react to you.

When I'm talking to non-alphas, I find it hard to actually get people to listen. However, whenever I talk to an alpha, I feel like I always out-alpha them (if there is no women around). Either they just don't bother speaking to me at all, or they treat me like I'm about to kick their ass. This one guy I know is fucking girl on a day to day basis but is treating me different from the rest and have asked me to not "challenge" him (jokingly say that I'll kick his ass) in front of others. What is this phenomenon? And how do I grab the attention from the non-alphas?

I think you have a lot of reading to do. But first, hit the gym.

Johnny10toes · 2015-06-22T21:10:30+00:00

http://www.manuelflara.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/thor.jpg

Choose one. The good looking guy on the left or the good looking man on the right?

Title	3 days trying to swallow the pill and have many questions
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Date	June 22, 2015 7:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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