I used to, in my last relationship have a problem with cumming too quick. That was THREE YEARS AGO. I stopped having that problem after that relationship ended ironically. Long story short, the girl I start seeing in january we had sex, it WAS pretty good, nothing crazy long but we're averaging 10 or so minutes.

I have no idea why or what triggered it. But the last month has been pure fucking hell of me lasting like 2 minutes.

Obviously, I need to figure something out on my end, but I don't know what triggered it or caused it.

But...

The major issue is she's been a little bit less into making out and DEFINITELY a little less into sex. I've told her cumming so quick bothers me and told her I'm not sure why it's happening. She said it bothers me more than it bothers her....

Clearly her actions are speaking louder than her words although it does bother me a lot. The biggest thing for me is I know how to fuck good, and CAN fuck good but my dick is being a stubborn cunt that won't let me last as long as I want to really get into the kinky shit like chocking, slapping, hair pulling, being rough ETC.

I also realize, perhaps that everything else is decreasing because it's clearly affecting my confidence and that's being shown in how I act/what I say.

What do/how to fix this?