I've been dating this girl for three, almost four months now and I'm approaching a situation where I just don't know what to do.
We're both 21, she has a history of CC riding, daddy issues, basically red flags galore.
When we both met we agreed that we were looking for a bf/gf scenario, after the third date she put out and we've been fucking every day for three months. Great, right? But the more I learn about her through indirect questions I get these very unappealing glimpses of her past (I don't overtly ask about it because I don't want to know) I've discovered for instance that she's cheated on her previous bf with multiple guys. A tremendous red flag.
I've made it clear to her that I don't care if she leaves, and I will drop her like a hot brick if I even suspect that she's cheating on me. I have her on a tight leash in a sense. I don't trust her and I never will, I wouldn't trust her even if she didn't have a history.
She's cute and petite but being real she's kind of a low hanging fruit. All the guys she's been with in the past were either using her or were complete fucking losers, probably even both. She was probably thirsty for some validation since highschool and opened her legs to betas.
I'm confused because I don't know what I paint in this picture. I'm just a broke college student who spends his week either studying, lifting, or working and more than half of my paycheck goes to my recently bought car. I'm so broke now in fact that she's been not only offering to pay for food in restaurants but she's also buying me shit like books.
I have little to offer to her but occasional dates and sex. Maybe she's expecting me to become a high value guy in the future, or maybe she's just enjoying the ride.
But if she's going to cheat on me why does she get upset at the thought of me talking to other girls? Dread game works too well on her.
I have oneitis. After reading this shit back at myself I realize how severe it is.
Chances are she'll cheat on me eventually for a chad or when her imperative kicks in, if I'm not in a better financial situation and my SMV is not high af she'll look for someone better off. But a girl aint worth this fucking headache so you know what I'm just not gonna worry about it. I'll focus only on myself.
As long as I get sex everyday I'm not gonna sweat it. I know how to handle her manipulations and I don't care if she leaves.
Post whatever. Maybe I'm wrong to come to this resolution.
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