Girls say I am chill, relaxed, cool, ... Most girls are very nice and friendly to me, but no pussy. What's wrong?

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T01:59:06+00:00

Do you make it happen?

Serious question, maybe your logistic sucks. You need to create the situation, "lets get a drink at my place", tell me how can you fail if she go to your place.

Maybe youre not sexual, look in her eyes and make sexual tension make wonders. Talk slower, touch her legs, make sure shes being taken care of, that she trust you, take her hand, get her to a personal place, sit or lay, and make out

You need to escalate, if you dont, it is NOT going to happen, even if she really, REALLY fucking want it.

Take care of that girl, take your responsabilities and fuck that bitch, jesus christ

GillWillPill · 2015-04-04T01:47:41+00:00

Have you made it known you are interested in them sexually? Just sounds like you haven't make your intentions clear yet.

vox_veritas · 2015-04-04T15:34:43+00:00

They mean you're boring.

Also, is it common to brag about having Ikea furniture in your office? Because I mean...

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T02:39:25+00:00

A walk through the park is cool, chill and relaxed. And also not exciting at all. These girls are at the carnival, they want a fun ride not a boring one.

What you have to do is learn salesmanship, you want to be the carnie that everybody wants to ride.

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T02:46:43+00:00

Are you sure the Ikea furniture line was a compliment?

thenotorious88 · 2015-04-04T02:59:16+00:00

sounds like you need to be more masculine. reevaluate your style

fnordsnord · 2015-04-04T03:18:28+00:00

What you don't say is how you've made a move and been turned down.

Do you isolate and escalate? No woman is going to invite you to have sex in a room full of her friends.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-04-04T03:40:27+00:00

She sexual intent.

I do believe in being aloof, I guess it may just be a coping mechanism with me. But you do have to show that you want to bang.

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T05:27:00+00:00

Push. Escalate. Lead.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-04-05T01:42:42+00:00

You have to commit to your course of action and stick to your guns. Did you broadcast to them that you wanted sex, causing them to call you an "asshole"? Yes. Did you own it and were you unapologetic about it? No. You probably apologized or tried to defend yourself, thus failing the shit test.

Women can sense commitment - they've been bred to chase it from birth. If you waver, lack confidence or don't convincingly commit to the aura you're projecting, then her alarms will trigger and the tingles will dry up. She'll figure you're not "the real deal" and seek a man who can back up his claims.

There's probably some disconnect going on. Either you're hesitating, not escalating or as I mentioned before, you apologize for being who you claim you are. It might be a holdover from previous beta tendencies, like maybe there's a tiny voice in your head that says "she's a person and not a piece of meat!" - if you were a genuine pussy-chasing asshole, you'd go for the kill and not worry about your prey.

If you want to hook up with random women, you have to project the aura of FUN. Remember - 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun' isn't just the name of a song - it's the female anthem. If you present yourself as an IDGAF "life of the party" type guy, women will line up for a ride. Women don't feel bad sleeping with that guy because he's a stereotypical caricature - he's a cliche and if she doesn't fuck him, some other woman will, so she might as well.

Women do this all the time - they want a quick fuck and they don't want somebody who will require anything in return. They don't want him blowing up her phone afterward. They don't want him asking "when can I see you again". They want to hop on the carousel, take a ride and continue with their day, and that type of guy fits their criteria - he's fun, casual and he makes no apologies for who he is, what he's after and he cuts to the fucking chase.

Women will only fuck a guy she barely knows or doesn't know at all when she is allowed and encouraged to be a dirty little slut with no consequences. To do this, you need to treat them as only sexual objects. If all you want is sex, why not? Walk up to them, tell her that her dress looks slutty and she has nice tits. She'll blush and giggle and won't believe you're being so forward. Talk to her, keep telling her how she's got such pretty dick-sucking lips and how you have a shade of lipstick for her to try.

Delivery is everything and so is the setting - this works best in bars and clubs. If you say it with a straight face, you'll look like a serial rapist. If you say it with a smile and a laugh and a twinkle in your eye in a manner that suggests you have huge brass balls and don't apologize for one bit of it, she will eat it up. Because you're making her laugh and feel good while telling her what a hot little slut she is. Her tingles will be at odds with her mind, which is telling her she shouldn't be laughing and should in fact be walking away from you, but her tingles will always win.

This video illustrates this perfectly. He tries to half-ass flirt and gets shut down. Then he debases them and calls them sluts while being a total asshole and he can't lose.

TL/DR: Sorry I wrote a book, just read the fucking thing. I've found success with this approach. The key is giving no fucks.

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Title	Girls say I am chill, relaxed, cool, ... Most girls are very nice and friendly to me, but no pussy. What's wrong?
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Date	April 4, 2015 1:24 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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