“You just seem like a guy who has a lot of girls"

sehns · 2015-03-13T04:04:32+00:00

One thing i’ve noticed is when a girl goes cold

This is a shit test. DO NOT INDULGE IT.

and I ask her to explain why

Shit test failed.

They don’t seem to want to put the effort in because they assume i’m getting lots of pussy.

Stop going after post-wall women, or near-wall women.

The issue is consistent because you remind the women you're going after of their forlorn alpha lovers who widowed them.

OmegaRed_Pill · Fri Mar 13 5:25:41 2015 UTC

"are you talking about today?"

agree and amplify man.

Also, I don't understand why you aren't f-closing after a few dates. They should be in your orbit by then if you are a very successful businessman.

kingofpoplives · 2015-03-13T13:41:24+00:00

You're coming off as a player. A lot of smarter girls will bail if they want a bf and don't want to be another one of your plates.

Fentrix · 2015-03-13T14:32:24+00:00

I've gotten this one as well. One subby "babygirl" was competely into me. Then I introduced her to one of my other babygirls and she went cold. I think I recall her saying "you seem like a guy who has a lot on his plate". So, TRP would say she's shit testing yadda yadda but that's just not the truth. The real backstory is she hadd a daddy dom but he had been ignoring her for months (happens too often in my circles. Doms collar a girl then become bored. Man the fuck up and move on), so
a) she is conflicted about dropping her collar and
b) she really wanted to branch swing from one monogamous daddy dom to another.

A few weeks later she had found that guy who at least told her she was the only one (see Sam Smith). You need to feel out these girls for what they want and then lie to them accordingly.

Cyralea · 2015-03-13T15:05:11+00:00

"Nah, I'm a virgin"

Agree and amplify. This is guaranteed to be the number one shit test you'll get. Followed by "I feel like you're only using me for sex". Learn to handle those two, they'll come up over and over again.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-03-14T06:41:27+00:00

As other posters have said in one form or another....Are you looking for plates or LTRs?

An LTR woman will not be your plate. Look for women who are comfortable being pumped and dump. There are many of them.

machimus · 2015-03-14T23:32:42+00:00

You ask them to explain why they're being a "weirdo"? Ha!

Why not ask them to explain what they mean? Lead the conversation such that they end up confessing they find you attractive and successful, and then thank them for the compliment. Then tease them about having a crush on you.

Title	“You just seem like a guy who has a lot of girls"
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Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	March 13, 2015 3:58 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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