Girl and I, who work with at a bar (I am experienced bar staff, albeit part time, she is a host who brings drinks to tables) recently hooked up after a work night out. Both too drunk for sex (I keep that line very clear, usually only sleep with girls first time sober/tipsy, gotta watch dem rape accusations) although we went back to hers and i crashed there. Some light fun, but nothing too sexual. She brought up a number of issues as shit tests, which i attempted to plough through. One being that I have a reputation (in line with red pill mentality) of having numerous plates on the go, having burned through girls in the past and that i tend to discard them easily if I so choose.

I left it 24 hours, dropped her a text

"Keep Tuesday free, we're going to do something"

I received "I'm busy Tuesday..."

to which I replied "Wednesday works as well"

A few hours later, I was busy in the gym then travelling home I receive a message "I don't know if thats a good idea.."

I am assuming she is getting edgy about my promiscuous history, the fact we work together and the fact that she may be perceived by anyone at the bar who finds out as another of my flings (not good for her status as although she's getting a high value male (final year medical student, popular, but known for playing the field and not valuing women beyond sexually) she'll be slut shamed by the other females and won't get as much attention from the other male bar-staff (wont go near my girl, kinda thing).

This juxtaposes with what is a clear attraction to me (previous hookup and past inside information from other staff that she liked me) and a good connection regarding debating things we're other interested in.

I don't read too much into potential plates, and am willing to disinvest and still have fun with other plates, but feel this girl has some potential and hey, i'm not an expert yet and wanted some other opinions on the matter.

I am going with agree and amplify "Clearly, its the worst idea ever. Can only end in trouble for us both. It'll be terribly awkward, and definitely no fun at all..."

Would appreciate any input guys!