So there is this very attractive woman that I know. She is married but she talks every day about how much her husband sucks and she wants a divorce. In my opinion, this girl is just dying to have someone to motivate her to....make a change.

Typical pretty girl, guys just fall in line around her and kiss her ass at every opportunity. She has a lot of orbiters. My approach with her has been the complete opposite. I tell her No every chance I get, I never directly answer her questions, I push her to open up but I keep myself mostly closed off, and I'm not afraid to neg her when I can. I got her to call me a jerk the other day, which is a good sign in my opinion. I try to always maintain eye contact. I have not attempted any flirting with her beyond letting her know I think she is attractive. I've also have tried being extremely warm and receptive to her, and then going completely cold with her for about a week.

Today I slipped her a handwritten note asking her to be my Valentine, this was done in jest more than anything, I wanted to gauge her reaction. Later in the day I texted her and asked what was taking so long for her to reply to my note and she says to me , "You already know the answer to your question." So I told her that we could go see 50 Shades of Grey for our date. She didn't reply.

I plan on not changing my approach any differently than I've already been doing because I think I've been making positive progress, but I do feel like I'm in a challenging position. She hasn't given me any strong indicators of interest, but she hasn't given me a strong rejection either. I'm not sure if she really isn't interested in me, or if she really needs to be pressed to get a reaction out of her. I know that women won't do a thing if they don't have their plausible deniability.

So /r/asktrp , How do you deal with a woman that doesn't give you any positive or negative reaction?