I made the mistake of waiting like 3 months to fuck a new girl I was seeing. I gave her the benefit of the doubt because she was only 19 and had just broken up with her boyfriend, so I gave her time to process it all and didn't want to jump in. I still got foreplay and everything else, just no sex until around 3 months.

I'm still new so I had no idea this was turning me into her beta bucks. I was taking her out and giving her the boyfriend treatment while she barely had to give anything up to me.

I have since cut contact with her

Assuming she doesn't put out within a week or two, do you hard next? What if she still likes you after you leave?

Not going to make that mistake again. How do I become the alpha she wants to fuck all the time as opposed to the boyfriend who gets scraps? Simply have higher smv than her?

For the record, this girl was out of my league, based on attractiveness only.