I am unattractive. Women are non-existent in my life. I wish I knew how to be happy. Help!

vandaalen · 2014-10-24T21:08:28+00:00

(5'6" short, bald, below average "cute" face, soft features, ...).

Grow a beard, wet-shave your head and do powerlifting.

AFPJ · 2014-10-24T20:54:25+00:00

Stop seeking happiness from external sources and search inside yourself.

trpfieldreport · 2014-10-24T21:26:43+00:00

I am unattractive, and there isn't much I can do about it.

Bullshit.

5'6" short

You can't change your height, you're right.

Bald

Own it. Shave your head, don't do that denial hair around your skull. Own the bald, shave that shit.

Below average

Yea, we can tell.

"Cute" Face

WTF does this mean?

Soft Features

Oh, you mean FAT.

You need some hard love my friend.

It's good though, cause TRP has a treatment plan for you.

Although, to follow this plan you need to have testicles. Hopefully they haven't dropped themselves off to try and escape you.

Here we go:

Fix your fucking attitude. You know who never gets laid? Miserable people. You know who nobody likes to hang out with? Miserable people.

Work, money, and other crap is going well for me. I don't appreciate it, though.

If you don't appreciate it, then it's not going well for you. You're miserable with your life. Change it.

You'll probably have to give up some things, such as money, to have the life you want. Do it. Regret nothing. Regrets are for women.

Lose your soft features. Workout like a boss. Get your body fat below 12%. Don't be a pussy and stand in the mirror after a week and say "This isn't working, whine whine whine."

You're 5'6. You're a small dude. Sorry, you're playing life on hard mode. You can't change it, so own it.

Does your size affect your confidence? I'm sure it does. You find other men intimidating? Sure you do. I'm 6'3, I get intimidated by other men. It's normal.

I recommend martial arts. Judo and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu are right up your alley. As stated, I'm 6'3, and I weigh 210lbs. I practice jiu jitsu with guys who are 5'6 and 150lbs who pretty regularly tap me out. And Judo - Judo is a short man's game.

Approach girls. Everywhere. 4/10 behind the Starbuck's counter? Flirt lightly (it will make her day). 9/10 at the bar that NOBODY is talking to because they're all pussies? Approach her 7/10 friend. Do that, and you get to be the Joker for a night - watch the world burn.
Lose your excuses. TRP offers a simple formula. It's worked for 300lb neckbeards, it'll work for a short bald guy. You are unattractive because you choose to remain that way.

If you're American like me, you're probably used to instant gratification. Start denying yourself that. Practice denying instant gratification. We're too used to it here, so we make soft men who quit.

Find out why you're miserable and fix it. If it requires quitting your job, moving back into your parent's house and selling your Xbox, then fucking do it.

You have one life brother, don't make it a pathetic waste just cause you were dealt the short man card.

drallcom3 · 2014-10-25T00:56:24+00:00

5'6? Fuck it. Stop thinking about it. Slight disadvantage, that's all.

Bald? Get a 1mm cut or shave it. Never think about it again.

Cute, soft face? You're probably fat. Lose weight, lift, grow a beard.

Take up some activities so you don't have time to be miserable. You're a man. No one's going to help you. You have to do it yourself, but it's not that difficult.

likechoklit4choklit · 2014-10-24T23:20:32+00:00

What are you good at? What skills have you honed to the point that they are impressive?

What are your hobbies?

This stream of questioning is here for you to answer because RP describes one of many psychological currents running through western sociopsychology. What RP often misses is that women have a hierarchy too, and women who eschew capitalistic philosophies are more capable of attraction to whomever they want: Some girls date guys because of the social signaling to other women while some girls date guys to specifically signal to other women that they are fucking wrong. The latter group, the protest honeys, are the group from which you should attempt to sample. Women crave a diversity of partners naturally, so all you have to do to scratch that short bald guy itch is: be fit, be funny, don't take things too seriously, and be good at something.

Develop your talent/skill to the point that you can do it better than most around you. Instruments, singing, art, gardening, volleyball, sports, running, whatever it is that you do for fun. If all your hobbies are online video games, real world slot machines, and armchair quarterbacking, you need to set them aside and find a more social, interactive, hobby that employs your creativity and essence as a human being. Don't just consume what is produced; produce things for others to consume. Then, using the power of our collective conscious (called the internet) find a group near you that has the same hobby and go to it. You a kinkster? maybe a fetlife.com meet up is what you need. You an artist? Find a nearby art club/studio/etc. You a writer? Go to a NANOWRIMO real life meet up. You literary? Go to a real life book club. Whatever you do, also set 90 minutes a week aside to work out; it will help you feel busy which helps you get things done.

Read this. http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ Watch the video. Then do it again.

Your internalization of the reality of what you look like has taken a turn from being realistic to buying into some bullshit genetic destiny theory where you assume that you've lost in the sexual partner arena before you even try. Firstly, Your value as a human being, as well as a man, is not tied to how much pussy you can pound, or how diverse that pussy is. As a part of a tribe, your value as an able bodied, probably intelligent man, is in how you enrich your tribe. By enriching those around you, you create social value, being a part of that will draw others humans to you, and in this pro-egalitan world, that will draw women to you. Secondly, there is a sexual lid for every sexual pot. Your reality is that you have to work a little bit harder to demonstrate value. Difficult? yes, none of us are entitled to difficulty free lives. Impossible? Not at all.

In a few billion years, the sun is going to expand, and absorb everything on earth. Everything everyone ever cared about will be washed away. We all struggled for nothing. Whether you were born a prince or an orphan beggar, it doesn't matter in the final tally. Know that, and you will begin to feel a bit more free. With that freedom, you use it to dig deep into yourself and find those things, those passions about the man you want to be, now temper them with your body shape and features, and go after that. The ultimate result won't matter anyway, but if you live to old age, you want to be a man who could honestly tell themselves that they tried to do the best with the 80 productive years of their human life. Otherwise, you'll have had a life with zero appreciated pay outs.

Did you idolize james bond? Time to look into getting an FBI type job? Did you always want to be a doctor? Take the fucking M-CATs. Did you want to be a drunk who thinks all women are the same? Keep doing what you're doing and fuck it, just sign yourself into a nursing home now.

magicalbird · 2014-10-25T00:00:07+00:00

So I am not going to get what other men have. Now what? I literally wake up feeling miserable.

You're alive in an era where you're set because of work and money.

Allow yourself to have a chance though. Find a cute girl that's around 5'0-5'3 in real life. Learn to talk in the day. Day time is cool because you are not being compared to taller men.

The only thing you can't control is height. You can get buff and get to the optimal point in every other trait. Just go for the really shorter girls that just want someone taller.

elgordoloko · 2014-10-25T03:05:02+00:00

I am 5'5 and can out lift a lot of taller men. I have fucked a few girls too. Sure its better to be tall and handsome but by saying you can't get something by your height or features is no different than a black guy saying he can't be successful because he is black. You have to play the hand that you are dealt. Regardless of how shitty it is.

DyoDyo · 2014-10-25T06:19:14+00:00

What's your ethnicity?

[deleted] · 2014-10-24T23:01:03+00:00

MGTOW

Title	I am unattractive. Women are non-existent in my life. I wish I knew how to be happy. Help!
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Upvotes	6
Comments	18
Date	October 24, 2014 8:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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