How to "close" my classmate?

Brocccooli · 2014-10-08T16:36:37+00:00

You say you lack empathy, and that you're DT. Yet you hesitate to approach some nobody.

You aren't DT. You're an edgy high-school kid.

Anyway, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see she's into you. Ask her out somewhere, you need to isolate. If she accepts, than attempt to escalate on the date (read sidebar).

If she declines with no counter-offer, she isn't interested and you drop her.

It's easy, really.

vandaalen · 2014-10-08T16:00:46+00:00

Your whole post doesn't compute. You are either bullshitting yourself into believing that you are DT or you are a troll.

Read http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/07/24/the-de-escalation-ladder/ on escalation.

Also your post reeks of oneitis.

[deleted] · 2014-10-08T16:19:35+00:00

Since the first day we held strong eye contact (8 seconds+) several times a day

I'm running asshole game, always keeping my frame, putting myself on the pedestal and making it look like i don't give a shit about her

These two things are completely conflicting, you can't be playing asshole game if you are holding eye contact regularly, you are sending her very mixed messages and just being confusing. Your post comes across as very beta trying hard to be alpha but failing, grow some cojones.

Haptic_Affinity · 2014-10-08T17:17:49+00:00

you're asking for help on "closing" but you haven't even talked to her yet, seriously?

Step 1 - talk.

tombreck2 · 2014-10-08T16:07:16+00:00

Familiarize yourself with the Sixteen Commandments and memorize it

Title	How to "close" my classmate?
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Comments	14
Date	October 8, 2014 3:53 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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