Real examples of how you vet the girls you date?

CloakedOrchid · 2014-08-15T05:05:50+00:00

Too much of the shit I hate in girls is linked to being dependent on their friends. Red flags are any behavior like looking for approval before acting, saying shit like "I have to be there for her," or being in a sorority.

Anything like that is way too highly correlated with flaking out for the sake of her friends, letting her friends get too involved between you two, or backing out because "my friend kind of likes you and I don't want to hurt her feelings."

I don't want to date part of a group. I want someone who can aggressively make her own decisions without double-checking with her sorority sisters which panties to wear before we go out. That's why I have a huge thing for bitch-faced girls (even better if they're rarely with girl friends). That's a girl who doesn't give a fuck what other girls say, and can make time in her schedule to be with you.

knitro · 2014-08-15T13:16:17+00:00

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HiddenPools · 2014-08-15T13:39:05+00:00

I'm probably a lot less complicated than some of the answers you'll get.

Go on 5 to 10 "dates" with her. Fuck her at least six times.

There's enough info on this board to cover red flags, so just watch for them on the dates. If she mentions something crazy, you have your LTR answer.

Make sure she isn't ass at sex.

The easy answer is, just pull from your plates.

2014-08-18T09:05:30+00:00

Texting tells me a whole lot when it comes to screening women.

Watch for response time. The quicker the better. Always, always, always take longer to respond than she did. Usually double the wait time is better. And don't use good grammar or spelling. Chicks aren't impressed by your fucking texting skills. That is not masculine.
Does she send you two, three, or even four texts in a row within seconds? Good, she's interested. For example:

Her: - Do you like Mexican food? - OMG it's my fav - There's this place by me that makes the best margaritas!!! - We should go sometime!!! ;)

You (20 mins later): Cool

Does she ask you a lot of questions? If so, she's interested. If all she's doing is answering your questions (you should be asking very little, make statements instead) chances are you're wasting your time.
Does she send correction texts? Like, she misspells a word or makes a typo, then sends the correction with an asterisks? If so, again she's probably interested. She's trying to impress you. You, however, do not do those things because you are not trying to impress her, because you e got options.
Here's a text that's a sure fire sign she is DTF:

Her: Hey you!

This has been written about before (Heartiste), but any player knew it to be true before hand. The words "Hey you" followed by an exclamation point are sure fire signs she's been thinking about you. You could easily place the words "I want to fuck" after "Hey" and get the same meaning. "Hey you" means she's been wondering/thinking about you and she is glad to be talking to you.

That's all I can think of for now, it's 2am. If I remember more I will add.

Edit: spelling

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2014-08-15T18:18:33+00:00

She should have goals and be pursuing them,. 6 figures or bust

2014-08-16T04:22:23+00:00

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DistanceSkater · 2014-08-15T05:41:37+00:00

Jesus, there some kind of sticky with all the RP lingo and acronyms? What does "vet" mean? I'm new to reddit in general, be on /b/ and BB /misc/ for a long time and a long time redpiller without even knowing it. I just thought I was being an asshole, which is what girls like.

Anyways.

I think the biggest deciding factor in women is if they have hobbies. Almost no women have hobbies outside of going out, drinking, gossiping and of course, social media. Some workout, but that's more of an activity/body maintenance. I'm talking about girls that say, play on a city league sports team, or go swimming, hiking, fishing, etc etc

One of my hobbies is skateboaring and all the skater girls I meet are almost always thinking on a higher plane than the average bar sloot.

Title	Real examples of how you vet the girls you date?
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Date	August 15, 2014 3:32 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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