lurker, rare poster. Love what I've read here and learned in the short time. Been a BP beta my entire life (thanks to parents and society) but the progress I've made in 4 months of being RP fuels me. I'd like a TRP perspective on a situation.

Girl and I have been dating for 3 months. Next week is her bday and she's planned to go to Vegas with her girlfriends (one of whom is a mutual friend and very close friend of mine who introduced us to each other). Our mutual girlfriend is in a 3 year LTR but her boyfriend is out of the country. I'm uncomfortable with this because while her friends are quality girls, I know the Vegas crowd and don't want another guy grinding on my girl, or worse. She's somewhat shy, never been in a relationship and is a virgin. Have a feeling she wants me to go but hasn't explicitly told me to go along but hinted it (perhaps because she believes I don't like the Vegas scene as my buddies went twice in 2 months but I didn't cuz I didn't like their group).

We're grabbing a bite tonight where I'm going to tell her that I want us to be exclusive and that I want to go along and be there to celebrate with her. Curious on your thoughts, gentlemen.