Girlfriend on vacation. Warning signs to watch for?

washyoass · 2014-07-09T09:21:42+00:00

With her family and her 12 year old brother?

Do you think she will invite Jamal over? Stop being paranoid. If she were going with a group of girls or whatever, then yes, I'd worry a little.. But a family trip?

gabilromariz · 2014-07-09T10:27:21+00:00

Dude, no. You're safe, trip wise but there are other red flags in here!

Namely the facetiming and the texting. Who's initiating this behaviour? Also, stop lying to yourself, you're super insecure. Work on it

southernfriedcode · 2014-07-09T09:46:04+00:00

Don't lie to yourself. You obviously are the insecure type. And you obviously have this girl so far up on a pedestal you can hardly see her.

If she cheats on you, she's a fucking slut and you next her. Quit worrying about it.

As for you, go out with some friends of yours while she is gone. Make it clear to her that your life is still going on just fine without her. Stop acting like a needy twat and facetiming her 5 times a day.

caxica · 2014-07-09T18:18:45+00:00

If she posts a photo on facebook of another dude's dick in her mouth, that would raise some red flags

pupplenupple · 2014-07-09T11:40:55+00:00

Now is when you really want to have made great friends out of her parents.

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Posagi · 2014-07-09T11:26:13+00:00

You know her family, what will they allow and what will they not?

Can she go out and party alone or will she hang around her family?

But even if she cheats why worry now? You can deal with this when she comes back home.

captainbloodd · 2014-07-09T13:46:52+00:00

You have no control over wether she cheats or not. So stop worrying about something you have no control over.

You also sound too young to be in a serious LTR.

Mrswhiskers · 2014-07-09T17:35:40+00:00

LOL you think she's going to be cheating on a family trip? Are you kidding me? No. While she may get some time to herself at the pool and chat with some people, Ain't nothing going to happen when family is around.

ben0wn4g3 · 2014-07-09T09:29:21+00:00

Trust your gut

johnnight · 2014-07-09T13:12:18+00:00

The worst thing you can do is show her you are insecure. Hold your frame, dammit!

todaysShadow · 2014-07-10T03:51:13+00:00

I hope some alpha's cum is still on her lips when she gets back and kisses your insecure ass

Title	Girlfriend on vacation. Warning signs to watch for?
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Upvotes	10
Comments	14
Date	July 9, 2014 8:09 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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