I need all the help I can get to reel in the HB9 that I've somehow hooked. I think it's time to create "alpha bux".

648262 · 2014-07-06T08:12:51+00:00

Alpha bucks is the ultimate LTR-mode in my opinion.

[deleted] · 2014-07-06T04:31:52+00:00

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. Saying it's not BB but providing no evidence to the contrary does not exclude it from being a possibility. Also, you say she wants the "bux" but not money. Do they store "stability" at your bank? Do the ATM's dispense "stability"? What the fuck do you think "beta bucks" means?

Men on TRP have claimed to be able to manage both sides of the AF/BB coin and maintain desirable long term relationships. It sounds like this is what you want to do. Maybe you can.

Perhaps you should stop trying to confirm your own bias by looking for approval here. Instead you could hit the reading material in the sidebar on TRP, some of which address your questions (plus some you have yet to ask).

Also, there is no such thing as a unicorn. That's why they're called unicorns. She is not a unicorn.

redbluepilling · 2014-07-06T05:26:32+00:00

I need to blow her away and start turning her into a LTR. I need a new approach that's like "alpha bux" to a degree...Is she too much of a unicorn for there to be any precedent for this?

I need

I need

Unicorn

^{here's some tough love. <3 all the best mate}

First, there's no such thing as a unicorn. This has been said many times. It's an ideal, that you try to foster and find in women, and you do this through vast experience with numerous women, evaluating them critically for LTR material (which, many people are jaded and convince themselves of this too easily. That's where the experience and plate spinning comes in).

All women have a 'beta bux' mode, but when they approach the wall, they realize they didn't lock this down early enough while they were still in their prime (and yes, even 31yr old '9s' are past their prime).

But back to the bigger issue, you're in uncharted territory, and you need to live it. You're acting like a woman hitting the wall, needing to lock it down. And, unfortunately, needing to lock it down is self-defeating.

I think she will be receptive to alpha leadership

All women are. If you can fill the leadership role and also be her support without jeopardizing that, this is the ideal for a LTR.

But, don't be so fucking quick to be her support. She should be working to win you over and for you choose her, not the other way around. This doesn't simply mean being aloof, but rather, being a man with options--with women, work, goals, and hobbies.

We've had two 3+ hour dates

And you're already set to make a relationship out of this.

Did you even fuck?

Are you actually still that kid in high school?

circlhat · 2014-07-06T12:40:13+00:00

Did you sleep with her yet? Its very important that you sleep with her before even discussing anything

robesta · 2014-07-06T16:12:36+00:00

Bro, if you frame to your date that you're looking for a relationship, she's already won and you're at a position of disadvantage. You want her to be trying to convince you that she's worthy of a relationship. Instead of, I want a relationship, go with, if the right girl came along I could see myself being in a committed relationship, but she better be pretty awesome before I'll even consider that.

Title	I need all the help I can get to reel in the HB9 that I've somehow hooked. I think it's time to create "alpha bux".
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Date	July 6, 2014 1:56 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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