Ignoring her shenanigans isn't doing anything and I can't exactly create attraction to then "bend her" into doing what I want.

Insults, screaming, stealing my stuff and recently threatening physical violence are my "daily bread". It's not like I'm worried or anything but it's bothersome and I'm tired of my home being an unpleasant place to be.

How can I work her thought process when attraction is not on the table? I see it for the massive shit test that it is but I'm at loss as to what I can do other than wait it out

EDIT: I found the perfect advice in some other thread and will be removing this post shortly. It was right in front of my nose the whole time, treating her like a kid in a way that does not make space for retaliation or diminishes my frame. "Sh, I have better things to do" and then go do them