Is there a way of raising your SMV in expensive clubs that celebrity's frequently turn up to ?

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-05-22T23:24:53+00:00

If you are worried about your girl reacting positively (read: acting on their advances) to other men hitting on her and buying her drinks then, well, evaluate that situation outside of this one. I love it when guys hit on my SO and buy her drinks, it raises her SMV in my eyes and my SMV in their eyes when she comes back to me.

No one else in that club will know that you are not a "rich" guy. If you are "desirable" in other clubs you can be that in any club. There is no sign pointing you out, just fake it till you make it. Dress well, stand tall, shoulders back and confidently smile.

If you are strapped for cash, make sure you get the first round for everyone when the parents' tab runs out. Yeah, yeah, you're not meant to buy girls drinks but it's your SO's 21st birthday party, don't be a tightass. Make sure you toast your SO when everyone starts drinking whatever you bought, "Here's to the birthday girl, bottoms up!". Get a round of shots or ~~a couple of~~ three bottles of sparkling for the table; do your research before hand and find out what bottles they sell so you can ask for one that won't destroy your bank account. Getting the first big round means everyone is sober enough to acknowledge it and hopefully take note that they now owe you a drink. If the rounds of drinks don't flow back to you, shrug it off, drink slow and have fun!

Obviously the previous paragraph goes out the window if you don't plan on staying with her for a while. Just read the last 5 words if she is not a keeper ;)

/edit forgot there were 15 girls. Run a cost analysis of what is cheaper out of a round of shots and 3 bottles of sparkling. On average a bottle should fill 5 of those flûtes.

dousche · 2014-05-23T11:41:19+00:00

Dude. You're in a high status club with 15 girls, that raises your SMV. If she speaks with anyone else, just dread by speaking to another of the girls in the company or anyone else. As all the other good tips on here on how to remain high SMV, just do what is told here and most importantly, be social!

FruitAndNutDelight · 2014-05-23T02:26:13+00:00

I'd suggest avoiding hanging off your SO too much because she'll need to be chatting with everyone. The easiest way is to just engage her friends as much as possible. If you get chatty early on with them then your girlfriend is free to move about knowing you're not depending on her attention. It'll be social proof that you're comfortable with a large group of girls at a nice club. Also, if she gets approached and sees you're not affected, she'll shrug them off and come back to you.

[deleted] · 2014-05-23T07:10:24+00:00

Is there a way I can raise my SMV in such a place ?

There is no easy cheap way, especially considering your age. You can however cheat in the short term. First of don't be intimidated, they bleed to, the are happy insecure and bored like anyone esle. Secondly get to know the people around there, the staff and the chilled people. Embrace the social proof the place offers you, and ride the positive assumtions of people. Raise your game to 140% short of getting in a fight or getting trown out, everything is allowed.

And when rich men are in there abundant how do i go about handling my SO getting hit on and possibly offered to be bought drinks ?

Are you intimidate because of those men or because of her hypergamous tendencies? They have nothing on you if she is attracted to you. However if you lead a fat chick to the cake shop every day you loose the right to be surprised when she gets diabetes. So don't let her make it a habbit, aldough given her circumstance i severely doubt you will have a choice in the matter.

How would you handle such a situation?

I would go, have fun, flirt with a kardashian or 2. And maybe "PIMP" her out for a million dollars for some giggles.

What mentality would you have installed when being in such a place ?

everybody shits, and like most party people all of them probably shat themself at least once.

Basically what would your game be ?

None, I have a girlfriend, I would have fun, play with easy chatches, but not actively pursuit other women, that is just nasty, especially on her birthday.

AlmostRP · 2014-05-22T23:44:02+00:00

Order a water with a splash of bitters and lime. It's an old school way of pretending you're drinking and let other dudes buy her drinks and joke about how cheap it is to take her out.

masterrod · 2014-05-23T03:16:51+00:00

I think you're psyching yourself out before you begin. I'd just make friends with strangers, starting with the girls you don't know in your group. When you girl goes to hang out with her friends, have a good time and try to make friends with strangers men would be better. It would be kind of weird to mack it to girls on her birthday. .

If it's her birthday I think that day is kind of about her, so I'm little unsure what your'e so concerned about your SMV. Let alone ranking against other people.

oidoidwoj · 2014-05-23T13:30:34+00:00

Are you going to Mahiki's? I hate that place.

In a place like that, people won't care about you because they're too insecure about themselves. A few people will be in your situation thinking about the same thing.

But you're with your SO, you don't need to do too much. Just have a good time and enjoy it.

GovBanana · 2014-05-22T23:45:25+00:00

Keep it cool. Fuck ur girl in the bathroom or at least heavy makeout with her asap and you wont worry about others hitting on your SO.

Coolness will come naturally.

Title	Is there a way of raising your SMV in expensive clubs that celebrity's frequently turn up to ?
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Date	May 22, 2014 10:01 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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