I currently have a low SMV as I just started to improve.

There's a girl I made out with some weeks ago and after that we didnt really see each other. Invited her over like a week ago and she gave me some "I feel bad and can't come" excuses and I answered that it's not happening then. I texted her a few days later she should came to a bar tonight and she didn't reply. Met her again today, didn't talk to her and didn't pay attention, she sends me a text in the afternoon asking me about something and I replied pretty neutral, she texted something back again but without anything that I could really reply to so I didn't bother and didn't reply.

She has a pretty high SMV in comparison to me (for now!!! wait for it!!) and I am kinda into her (Oneitis ??) ; I just have no idea how I can meet up with her without looking desperate. Hope you guys have advice