I'm not american nor english so my english sucks bad: sorry for that but then again I feel the need to comunicate with you guys. By the way m. 30 yo here.
Long time lurker on TRP I agree with most of the stuff I read there. In my opinion (underline "in my opinion") most of the guys who write in this subreddit are hurt guys, guys who suffered too much and need to give a name and a face to that suffering, give it a form and a size they can understand and control; at least this is how I feel. Although TRP is not totally masculinism but it has some elements of it. And I contempt (or scorn, I don't know the right word) masculinism and feminism equally because I think that we need both gender to survive as a species so.. yeah, I think it's stupid to stress the differences and try to determine who has the moral high ground etc. Even better: we need a companion to get through life so what happens when (as masculinist or feminist) we keep degrading the other gender? So this is my question: how someone who belives in TRP (me included) can get married and have a good life with a woman like my parents had? I understand all the psycological games and the game itself, but when it comes to spread the genes and have kids what's the TRP answer? I'm not going to discuss my personal story yet since it took me 10 minutes to write this question alone, but I will soon since I'm looking for your opinion.