Welcome lurking cuckolds! Many of you have found your way here on the advice of others from subs such as /r/relationships and /r/DeadBedrooms, or possibly Talk About Marriage: Coping With Infidelity.

Be aware! Most, if not all here, do not subscribe to feeding the Industrial Reconciliation Complex. Sincerely, if you’re looking to enter The Abyss, go to MMSL… you will get good but misguided advise there. MRP saves men, not marriages. Also, this is not a ‘safe space’. This is a Locker Room where you will be told to leave your ego at the door, called out on your bullshit, and pushed to your limits. We build high-value men here, not weak, cuckolded chumps.

Most here will call you a Troll, but I know it’s more often the truth… I know you for the lost, pathetic and empty husks that you are. From all the recent cuckold posts, I could have written this shit word for word, myself. You see, I was once one of you. Just as pathetic. Just as weak. Just as lost. I got the plausible deniability, the gas-lighting, the trickle-truth, and like you, initially believed the lies because the truth and the unknown was just too scary.

You’re not all unique, special snowflakes. I (and others here) made all the same mistakes you’ve made up to this point and, in spite of it all, still found the red pill and transformed my life into one you can only dream about.

Like l did, you will try to reconcile and during the arduous process of becoming a better man, you will realize that she is not worthy of what you have become. Cheaters must play the victim, because owning their behavior means they’re ‘bad people’ and they can’t have that! Since victims don't need to change, she will fall way behind. The lack of value that she adds to your life (if she ever did) will increasingly become the splinter in your mind's eye and the dissonance will become deafening.

Then, one morning, you will wake up, see the shit-hole you’ve dug yourself in, know that it’s a prison of your own making and finally 'choose yourself'. This is the "There is no spoon" moment... when you finally realize it was never about her, only you. When you are a man of value who has options, it all becomes crystal clear.

And what does that life look like? It becomes amazingly abundant. Nothing is out of reach. Relationships, career, passions, experiences... everything.

How do I know? I was where you’re at roughly five years ago. I remember the pain, fear, uncertainty, doubt... all of it. And, I get it... crossing that threshold is scary. Do you continue to play it safe and deal with the 'devil you know' or do you move into unknown territory? I can guarantee moving forward is the only option.

By maintaining the status quo, you give the wife a pass to (continue to) treat you like shit (as did my ex), because regardless of the progress you make now or in the future, you've irrevocably confirmed to her that you deserve everything she's done up to that point. She doesn’t respect you now and never will again. You will be signing up for a metric shit tonne of misery & contempt, consigning your self-respect to the abyss if you give her the 'hall pass' she expects.

You don't realize it now, but coming here and telling your ‘tragic’ stories of emasculating cuckoldry signifies the first day of the rest of your new lives. It just takes one simple act… choose yourself!

Because, at the end of the day, the red-pill has only one message... Live your life on your terms!

So, what’s it going to be?