Just read NMMNG, sure I see some NG behaviour in myself but my GF is even worse. She does everything just to please people, clearly bc she is afraid of being abbandoned, she also has some daddy issues correlated with the abandonment issue. IMO it seems just as toxic to the relationship as if I was the NG. The strange thing is. When the girl is the "nice guy" the guy doesn't seem to have an immediate problem with it. It's nice when someone will do anything for you. When you later find out that it's just to keep you it's a bit less nice. But the problem I'm facing now is that I've become too accustomed to her always being there for me.

I do however have some of the symptoms of being a nice guy. I don't have many active male friends, I hang around a LOT with my GF and I want sex while she doesn't. I've accepted that I'm just not attractive and am a no-life loser. Now for the harder part how do I get started with getting a life beside the one I have with my GF.

What do you guys think or have experienced?