I approached this chick 2 nights ago. Taking selfies in the club, massively validated by everyone. One of my friends tells me that "i don't have the balls" to approach her. "Here, hold my drink" and I'm off.
After about 2 minutes she asks me (again looking for that validation).
Her: How would you rate me on a scale of 1 to 10?
Me: I don't use that scale. I use the binary scale.
Her: Oh, what's that?
Me: I put girls in 2 categories. The ones I would fuck and the ones I wouldn't fuck. Simple, right?
Her: And where am I on that scale?
Me: You're a 1.
Her: Really?! You think I'm a 1????
Idiot called me an asshole and turned around instantly. I guess she thought I was still rating her on a scale from 1 to 10.
Anyway, to the point. Me and my mates no longer rate them from 1 to 10. We simply give them 1s and 0s, it's much easier to approach and get out of that mindset where we think girl X is more special because she looks the way she looks.
Try it next time you're out in a social venue.
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