I ran across an interesting post called the thermostat on talkaboutmarriage.com that I think illustrates some redpill truths, even though the author doesn't realize it.

It talks about what kills attraction (and relationship), and many of the things they talk about, like outcome dependence, being butthurt, and not withholding affection (without using those terms) correlate well with MRP.

I'd be interested in what other people think about this way of looking at things. "Lowering" my thermostat has definitely improved things for me.