Repost-O-Rama! The Praxeology Of The Dominant Male

[deleted] · 2015-08-17T15:22:52+00:00

Solid Post, I like the 'final' quote:

"A man who pursues a dominant position in his own home realizes that his wife's resume becomes immaterial the moment she walks through the door, and that his relationship with her is not based on any other title than "wife". *"

I describe my relationship with my wife as a ying yang. Her feminine nature and my Masculine one.

Too often people are always together and they take on the opposite sexes personality traits and behavior. This is why it is so important that each individual has their own thing (hobby, friends, things they do).

When you make your wife your mission that lines straightens out. When it's vertical, you've got the 'equal partnership' which everyone knows (or should know) is disaster for any relationship.

That line straightens out every time you say I don't know when she asks you a questions or when you say It doesn't matter when she wants your opinion.

You have to lead. You have to be a confident dominant (not domineering) force in her life and that of your children as well if you have them.

UEMcGill · 2015-08-17T19:33:33+00:00

It's interesting, in that I have two examples in my life that resonate with me every time I think about this, praxeology. Early in my career I worked in a plant in the deep south. In the area I worked it was a unique blend of highly STEM people and blue collar support staff. One woman in particular was happy, outspoken and on the weekend she was an AME minister. Two of the chemists (female) were having a discussion about the problems with men. The married one was fighting with her husband. The minister woman looked at her and said "Girl! Aint no use fighten wif your man. You suck his dick? Cause if you don't some other woman will. You take care of yo man in the bedroom and he will take care of you foevah. You taken care of bidness?"

She sheepishly answered no.

The minister woman looks her straight in the eye and says "Mmmm hmmm. Thought so. White women."

It was enthralling to watch. But even then I understood what she was saying. Men will put up with all manner of crap if you just catered to their most basic need. And judging by her dishes from the occasional pot luck she was a fantastic cook, so she had all the bases covered.

Second, my own cousin. A card carrying, Obama loving, self proclaimed feminist of the highest caliber has one of the best marriages I've seen in my family. She once told me that my mother taught me how to be part of the male patriarchy that keeps women below the glass ceiling, cue Monty Python "Help, help I'm being repressed!". Despite all of this, the moment she comes home from work, she is a ideal red pill woman. She supports her man and his hobbies, she cooks like nobody's business, and lord knows I've heard stories about how she takes care in the bedroom.

As an engineer I find Redpill particularly resonates well with me because in my career it's been a whole lot of "Who fucking cares why it works but it does." I can site a million examples where the more scientific people were going on and on about what could be where I was doing instead.

So here's two complete opposite examples, they espouse completely different ideologies, yet their actions are the same. The result is two good marriages.

dandar4600 · 2015-08-17T16:58:06+00:00

This one for me was another homerun.

My wife is aware of my post history, and vaguely aware of something called the red pill. I find myself wanting her to read this particular blog post. On the other hand I'm not sure that she knows that she is acting submissively towards me and making her aware of this might make her want to "rebel." The saving grace here is that there are inputs from two different women in that article. What do you think? After 6 months of red pill is it way too early? Should I not poke the sleeping lion...ess?

Title	Repost-O-Rama! The Praxeology Of The Dominant Male
Author	IanIronwood
Upvotes	14
Comments	9
Date	August 17, 2015 1:21 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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