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3 weeks in all positive results. I am still learning by trial and error but overall I am doing a lot better.

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Title 3 weeks in all positive results. I am still learning by trial and error but overall I am doing a lot better.
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Date July 17, 2015 3:22 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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[–]alphabeta49MRP APPROVED6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

First of all: please for the love of god use paragraphs and work on your grammar when you use run on sentences it makes it really hard to read and theres alot going on in this post you could have easily made a three bullet point list with a "results" section at the bottom for that last interaction with your wife but instead its just one big paragraph so can you please pretty please change this ok?

Now that that's out of the way, you've made great progress. To fuck with her head, maybe don't wait until day 30 to initiate. Go at day 28 or something. Or wait until day 35. You're seriously changing the dynamic between you two, so don't give much weight to her "30 days" rule.

She says you look good , this is the guy I married.

I can bed that felt amazing! You're getting it man. Keep it up.

Other things I'd like to hear about: how is your social/bro life? Are you taking time for yourself?

[Edited to add stuff]

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP - the last line of defense in proper grammar and writing structure.

[–]slopejeff0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Sorry about the run off sentences. I will try better the next time. i am not going to wait the 30 days , as a matter of fact i may go to 40 days. Reason being is we had visitors and she had her period. So for me i am going to factor in about 10 days so that i don't get the i had my period or people were over excuse. I will give it ample time. I am going to ask her after if she felt stressed at all during those 30 days. Since reading MRP i have not bitched once about no sex. No biggie and i am going to remain that way. The only rhing i will change is when i do start to ask her and she says no i will go do something else to better me or myslef. For my social life , well sometimes its tough..my buds all have kids. I dont. But i did set up a golf game next week with some single friends. I have a dart league i play in every tuesday

[–]alphabeta49MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I am going to ask her after if she felt stressed at all during those 30 days.

Just curious, why ask her?

[–]slopejeff0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Only reason because she said she felt stressed when I would ask her for sex after numerous times, then get turned down, then I would get upset. She said this caused her stress. My feeling is do I ask her if she was feeling stressed during those 30 days that I did not ask her. Because if she is still stressed its something else she has to figure out. Or do I not even ask , not even give a shit . I'm leaning towards not even asking her. Just giving it about 35 to 40 days and I will initiate sex again. If she says no , a hard no, I tell her perhaps another time and then pick up my bag and off to the gym I go

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course it caused her stress. You know why?

Because EVERY TIME YOU ASK FOR SEX you are REMINDING her of something that should be MUTUAL AND NATURAL.

You are literally taking something her hamster is already aware of, and spinning away, and hanging a lantern on it.

You're doing very well. Continue, and don't ask her how she felt, she'll answer that question based on how often she begins to jump you. Bringing it up is at the least, neutral half truth response, and at the most, giving her hamster an excuse to use in the future again.

[–]alphabeta49MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Agree with megalodon or whatever his name is.

You shouldn't ask her, and here's why. You'd be trying to use logic on her. "See honey? You weren't stressed when we didn't have sex. So we should just have sex whenever we want without me asking, right?" When she could actually be thinking, "I felt so stress-free when we weren't having sex. Maybe no sex is the answer." Don't try to engage the hamster with logic.

Because if she is still stressed its something else she has to figure out.

And if that's the case, that's her problem to figure out.

Best of luck.

[–]slopejeff0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So in your opinion when the 30 day bs is up, dont say anything and just go back to telling her i want sex, and of course as i learned if she says no then i will brush it off and go about my day

[–]alphabeta49MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ideally you wouldn't tell her anything. Just initiate. I can imagine this nagging thought going through her head right about now: a little dread, something is up with my husband, etc. I guarantee you're getting her attention and she'll be keenly aware when you decide to sexualize the relationship again.

I myself am not a talkative guy, so I play to my strengths. I'm the strong-and-silent type, so if your personality fits, you can create the same image in her mind. You already have this 30-day hiatus going for you. So when you finally do initiate, you won't have to say a word but just to take her and make her yours, selfishly taking her, flipping her around to different positions, varying the speed and intensity, edging her... You're hopefully going to be much more confident by that point, you won't have any problems getting her to submit to the new you.

Of course, the alternative is that she will have enjoyed the break and won't want it to end. In which case, you have a whole separate issue. But I doubt that will be the case, based on what you've shared with us.

[–]slopejeff0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I know already she likes the new me. Remember i have not initiated sex for 30 days. Its all on her. So far during the 30 days we have had sex 3 days in a row. That hasn't happened in i don't know how long. Also this past Saturday we had sex in the morning and at night. Just ponder this, we have spoken about having sex twice a day. My wife said to me "one a day is good for me and im worn out". After banging her hard saturday night, im talking about relentless pounding she came twice and had to literally push me off her cuz she was cumming. All i thought in my head with a grin was "yea ok , you don't want to be fucked twice in one day "

[–]alphabeta49MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women will be absolute sluts for the right man. Congrats on taking steps to be the right man. Its a simple solution that only takes hard work. But as men we're good at that once we set our minds.

As a side note, have you read the articles u/ianironwood has been reposting? There's some good shit in there.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Paragraphs dude, paragraphs.

No sex 30 days, sex picked up...What?

cute girl, out of my league - drop that shit attitude right now. You need irrational self confidence or MRP won't work. If you don't believe in you, nobody will believe in you.

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I urge my brothers to read his earlier posts and then this one. This is what we are looking for! Obviously there are problems but you have control of the direction of this ship now. Good show.

I always say to be successful in anything- business, love, whatever- all you have to do is try, and not even very hard.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So much better than the db plan to have him wait patiently and respect her feelings.

Fuck that, he has shit to do.

[–]Redneck001MRP APPROVED1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Next step is sundress, no panties. Worked so well the first night, the wife had a new sundress and no panties on the next night. No prompting needed.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unreadable. ParAgraphs are underrated

[–]strategos_autokratorMan, Married, Mod0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is unreadable. I'm going to delete it. Please, clean it up, organize your ideas, use paragraphs and learn the proper use of punctuations marks, and post again after.

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