Anyone else struggling NOT to talk to women?

BluepillProfessor · 2014-12-14T21:41:38+00:00

Athol Kay (MPBUH) reminds us: "There will ALWAYS be a test.....some woman will respond before your wife. Don't do it or you risk destroying all of your work."

And while getting numbers and screwing other women might be good for Dread, it is not so good if the goal is to stay married.

My take is that we have been sleeping and unaware of how to interact with women our entire lives. Now we have been given the keys to the Kingdom and it is actually ridiculously easy once you know what women want (Dominant, Confident Men).

For the first 50 years of my life exactly 1 girl hit on me or asked me out (and I have been married to her for more than 20 of those years). In the last year since I discovered The Red Pill I have had THREE girls blatantly hit on me. Two of them were 30 something single moms and no sweat at all. In fact I could hardly wait to tell my wife. The other was an incredibly hot 19 y/o and I think when I told my wife about that one was when everything changed. I really wanted her. I would have ended up unemployed on the street but I still cogitate on Rollo's Maxim: "Rejection is better than regret." I don't know that it is true even when you are doing the rejecting.

Roughknot · 2014-12-14T05:24:07+00:00

Yes. It's especially hard when they are 10 years younger, hot and giving you the eye big time. Things get very HARD.

I don't entirely trust myself, so I keep interactions where the girl initiates to eye contact flirting where possible. If I choose to talk to girl on my terms to test my 'game' I have more control over myself and the interaction.

I_AMA_Naughty_Boy · 2014-12-14T01:52:24+00:00

This is an definitely issue for me. I suggest you flirt. Flirt away! I use these experiences to build up my confidence as much as possible. If the wife see's it's just building dread and raising my SMV. If she doesn't whats the harm? What a great opportunity to work your game and reinforce that outcome independence.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-12-14T03:09:26+00:00

I am struggling to talk to more women. If this female creature is as beautiful as you say, send her my way.

newlifeasredpill · 2014-12-14T03:50:00+00:00

Well..I say go for it. Helps with abundance mentality

Title	Anyone else struggling NOT to talk to women?
Author	InSearchofOMG
Upvotes	3
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Date	December 13, 2014 9:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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