21 year old with Erectile Dysfunction

millioneuroextreme · 2019-01-25T04:53:34+00:00

You took the red pill, now take the Viagra pill.

GeuseyBetel · 2019-01-25T05:27:45+00:00

This isn't as unique of a problem as you would think. You probably have performance anxiety that's caused by being worried about keeping an erection in the first place - creating this cyclical condition. The shitty feedback from the girl doesn't help either.

You break this cycle by getting your confidence back up and being comfortable with yourself. You need to internalize that boner or no boner, it doesn't matter, just focus on having a good time and don't make sex the ultimate goal.

Viagra/ED pills WILL help this, as they make it easy to get a boner, taking pressure off you in your sexual interactions. You can get them prescribed discretely (100% legal) at getroman.com

Now, if you can't even get a boner looking at porn or stop getting morning wood, you might have a physical issue and should see a doctor. However, I've heard of dudes with depression/anxiety/stress so bad also causing this, but that's a whole another can of worms, and should still see a specialist for that anyways. I dont think this is your issue though.

Keep working out for your physical health but also take care of your mental health. Do things like meditation and keep your stress in check - this stuff is a journey and you have to create good habits for it to work. In the mean time, go sign up on getroman.com and get yourself some Sildenfil. Be honest with the doctor they connect you to (like I said, it's not as uncommon as you'd think).

Good luck.

EDIT: Just wanted to add to not worry about getting dependent on a pill for sex. I respect your mindset, but focus on solving the problem in front of you, not a potential problem down the line.

Kratom_Dumper · 2019-01-25T10:32:59+00:00

You need to give nofap/noporn more time. Look up peoples experience with ED at yourbrainonporn.com and you will notice that everyone eventually solves their ED by not watching porn/nofap but that it often takes months.

Flamethrowa21 · 2019-01-25T05:06:12+00:00

You may have some underlying mental health issues. Could be anxiety, bipolar, depression.. also could easily be from too much porn and being overweight. Get active, get blood flow down there. Squat heavy. Deadlift.

8700nonK · 2019-01-25T09:55:22+00:00

Do kegels every day.

Also don't contract your PC muscles (the ones you use for kegels) when trying to get aroused (aka sex). It seems like a good idea to do that and has a small temporary effect but it basically will prevent you getting fully hard (and will make you come quicker).

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2019-01-25T05:21:46+00:00

OK so are you able to get hard and climax on your own? Have you been completely off of porn/masturbation for the last 3 weeks? The probability of you having ED being a young adult male, assuming you are otherwise healthy, is very small. The first time I tried to have sex with my first girlfriend I couldn't get it hard (I was about your age, and was/am a porn addict) But it was basically just me being nervous. I know this sounds contradictory, but drinking alcohol actually helped. The key is to find that sweet spot between liquor-dick and anxiolytic.

eboyster · 2019-01-25T09:48:45+00:00

You need to stop jacking off bro. Bottom line son

Classy_Amir · 2019-01-25T12:21:18+00:00

Go see a doctor.

Jabbermouth · 2019-01-25T21:46:36+00:00

You’ve only been on no porn for 24 days. Come back in a month or two and update us.

suckisuckilongtime · 2019-01-25T08:28:33+00:00

Listen bro low T could be the cause of this, all you need to do to find out is get a blood test, you need to check your Testosterone, Free Testosterone and Estradiol and even prolactin might be good.

If your results for Test are low or estradoil or prolactin are high these would be the cause of your ED it’s very worth it to check out because once your know it will be easy to fix.

Title	21 year old with Erectile Dysfunction
Author	Jarl_of_Belleville
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	January 25, 2019 4:37 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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