I think there may be a post on this. I can’t find it if you have the link I would appreciate it.

My Gf (Dating for 9 months. Exclusive for 2. No issues yet) had a long day at work. She said she had a headache prior to. I met up with her briefly on my lunch break. I didn’t think she was being rude or anything. Just seemed a little under the weather or frustrated. Nothing alarming and she didn’t take it out on me or anything. But I could tell it’s was a bit different from usually so I didn’t stay long. Told her I had a lot to do and headed back in. She got sad and said you’re leaving me already? 😞.

I said I have to get this stuff done. Kissed and left.

She text me a couple minutes later saying

“I felt like I was cranky and whiny and I’m so sorry if I was 😳😂”

Like I said I didn’t think she really was towards me at least. So I just said. Why were you cranky?

She said I feel like I was. My head hurts and I feel like I was cranky because of it. I’m sorry.

How should I respond to this? Is it better to ignore it. To show if she’s going to be that way I’ll withdrawal my attention? (Like I said nothing bad has happened so she’s doesn’t know how I will react when it does)

Or should I accept the apologize because she recognized it and apologized? If so how?

Or say I didn’t think she was being cranky don’t worry about it.