So usually I fuck up. Today was a different kind of fuck up. Lazy day today. Got up 5:30 cause the dogs don't know its weekend. So I walk with the dogs, go back into bed, sleep in again. Sleep till 8, wife makes coffee. Reading Laws of Power till about 10.

So suggest a nice round of fucking. She says, she has to clean up and make herself ready, but yeah. So I go on with my stuff and buy grocerys. On my return I ask my wife about sex. She says no. Tells me about that this is not spontaneous enough. (Never ask for sex). I set myself on for failure.

So I drive to the city and just walk around. I try to set my frame. Smile. Walk around drink coffee. I got some smiles back, which boosts my ego. Get text from the wife. Don't answer them.

Get back home and I am prepared for a shitstorm. And she is pissed. Also she is already dressed up for the medieval fair we are going to attend. Imagin her like Lagertha from Vikings.

She ask me where I was. Tell her, that I was with my five girlfriends. She suspects me of having only one. I tell her the truth, that I was in the city for a coffee and some reading.

She tells me that she don't know me anymore, that she might divorce me. I say, it's fine, sometimes things turn out this way. She tells me that she would be very upset if she would lose me. I tell her that she doesn't have to. She tells me to:

  • open up more

  • be honest

  • take her serious

  • at least tell where I am over text

I say I will write it down. I also tell her, that in order for this to work, there has to be sex. And I always fantasized about having sex with her while she is dressed up. Well she is not excited...

I tell her, that she looks very sexy in her outfit.

I have to dress up for the fair. So I go upstairs she follows. I undress, turn to her and she says: We don't have enough time, our friends are waiting. I tell her I don't care. I kiss her, touch her, pull down her panties. I throw her on the bed. She is really wet from this. We have a quick fuck, she orgasms. Well I always have fun having sex.

Ok so we drive to the fair. Music and stuff. I decided on a frame and followed it through. She gives me a lot of IOI and is really cute. She thanks me for the nice day she had.

There is so much room for improvement. But this would never had happened without marriedRedPill.

My problem sill is this: AA and AM is countered by "you don't take me seriously". And STFU by not opening up and not beeing honest. She is afraid that I return to my former Chad state (I was pretty alpha but without beta traits - almost killed the relationship, which killed my alpha - classic). I still have work to do and work on myself but I can see that I am going somewhere.

TLDR: Red pill works